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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 05/27/2014 - 11:32am

My niece kept avoiding me.

So I finally told my sister what I knew yesterday.

She had a talk with her. Confirmed BF is 35. Confirmed she did cheat. Confirmed that her and BF broke up and he has been kind of stalking her.

I guess one night last week he was outside her house waiting for her to come home. He was drunk. She just drove to gas station instead and called a friend who called ExBF and talked him into leaving.

He called her phone 50 times in a row and sent lots of texts.

My sister is going to be keeping an extra eye on the situation.

What are the odds?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 05/20/2014 - 8:15am

MSD class is graduating this Saturday. (I looked it up on the schools website)

There has been no mention to DH about graduation from MSD. I dont even think that DH has thought to ask MSD or is assuming its this weekend. The oldest 2 graduations were in June. So even if DH has thought about it, I am sure he thinks its in a few weeks and he will find out closer to June.

I asked him- anything going on this weekend? He said No. I told him my mom is going to be in town, FYI. He said okay. No mention of graduation for MSD.

Damn SS made the cockatoo bird fly away

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 05/16/2014 - 7:23am

I have taken the bird outside before. With no harness. DH takes him outside with the harness. The bird is bonded to me, so he has always stayed on my shoulder or my lap. No issues.

SS comes over to borrow some camping stuff. (taking bets on what we get back and what gets ruined). I am outside with bird on my shoulder. I go over to say hi to SS. He points a dang fishing pole at the bird and there goes the bird.

Soaring the in the sky. He did look quite beautiful, not going to lie. Big white and yellow wings. Freedom!

So when it happens again... how to handle...

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 9:25am

Okay so MSD has this apartment. Its $760 a month. That is a lot of money for an apartment in our area for an 18year old with a baby who is making $10 an hour. Plus the $700 in disability for the baby. Not sure if she is getting gov't assistance. She will get it, if she qualifies for sure. Also not sure what is going on with CS, since she has only been on her own for about 3 weeks. Prior she was living with BF and his family.

When she was living with BF she didnt have to pay any bills. Yet she got her car repoed the other day.

Pigs must be flying- a skid wished me Happy Mothers Day--- but I know she's up to something....

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 8:18am

DH sent both his daughters that are mothers a text wishing them a happy mothers day.

OSD responded back with "Thank you" and that was it. She just found out the day before that she is having a girl.(Saw on FB on something another family member posted that I am friends with on FB). Guess she didnt want to share that news with Dad.

MSD responded back "Thank you and tell Zero Happy Mothers Day" }:)

Ummm okay... isnt this the same skid who couldnt even be bothered to read the message I sent her because it was "too long".

MSD's money woes already.....

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 05/09/2014 - 6:41am

DH earlier this week brought him ANOTHER junk car. This brings the total to 3. Which will just sit in front of our house or beside the house. In no way do I codone this or accept it. I HATE it. My DH is a hoarder and collector and I am always on him about it. He will tinker with the car, then nothing will come of it and then it will just sit there. He may deciede to scrap it and basically get his money (or less) back. They are all driveable FYI.

Well he brings home another car. I do think his intentions were for him to keep it for himself.

Debbie Downer Here

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 05/08/2014 - 1:19pm

My Grandma is 87. About 2 years ago she broke her hip. Up until then she lived on her own before having to go to the nursing home. She went to the casino, went to play Bingo, stayed up late playing cards and ended her night with a half of beer or glass of wine.

She is getting ready to pass away soon. She has been going downhill since she broke her hip.

I saw her last weekend (we live 2 1/2 hours away) and she wasn't doing well at all. Hopsice is now being called in as she has a fever, they cant get her oxygen levels up and they want her to be more comfortable.

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