This is what I get for FB stalking...
I just threw up in my mouth. I seen visions I can't take back! I deserve it all for stalking though 
Bleach wont even clear my eyes.
I blocked BM from mine and DH's FBs a long time ago. Thankfully I never have to see that ugly bitch.
Well my friend and I are at lunch and she was talking about issues with her BM (she is engaged, lives with the man, he has a 10 yr old daughter) and said something about BM's fake teeth. So I ask if there is a way to see BM on FB and she said yes and showed me a pic.
So then she wanted to see DH's ex. So she looked her up on FB and of course I am nosey and curious so I do look through her pics.
Apparantely her and her BF went on vacation to the beach. There were BIKINI pics of her on FB. *shudder* *scary* I'm a size 4 and I wouldnt be on FB in a bikini. Plus I think there comes a certain age (and size) where you dont put those pics on social media.
There were also pics from OSD wedding from last summer. The one that SD DID NOT invite DH too.(pretty sure it has to do with me) But there is BM and her BF all cheesing and posing for pics with OSD on wedding day. Made me a *little* sad for DH.
Okay- I'm going back to my out of sight, out of mind. I deserve the punishment of seeing the gross bikini photos.
- zerostepdrama's blog
- Log in or register to post comments
Comments
I wish I could be side by
I wish I could be side by side with BM, in a bikini.... LOL! I am not perfect but it would be funny as hell. She told me one time when I asked about her cousin (who is small like me) " She's perfect on the outside just like you"
Eff you BM. I am perfect on every side.... LOL!
I forgot to add that there
I forgot to add that there was also a picture of her in a red fancy dress at a Christmas party and she has the side pulled up so you can see her leg. I guess trying to be sexy ? :? Um no...
I would want to bleach my
I would want to bleach my eyes out too if I saw BM in a bathing suit. It wouldn't even have to be a bikini. :sick: I already made the mistake of asking too many questions and hearing way TMI about her body.
I'm a freak though. I wear 50's style bathing suits but I'd totally wear 1920's styles if I could get away with it without too much ridicule. I'm not a prude, I just hate bathing suits on me.
LMAO OMG. DH doesn't like
LMAO OMG. DH doesn't like looking at BM because the bigger she gets the more hairy moles she gets on her face and it freaks him out. So I like to pull up random close up pics of her from her FB and show him and he gets mad. I would kill to get a pic of BM in a bikini to show DH-I'm just sadistic like that.
I think a lot of us have been
I think a lot of us have been there at one point or another... so glad I have no mutual friends or anything that would bring BM up on FB, thanks for the reminder to keep it that way.
Yes Ladies let this serve as
Yes Ladies let this serve as a warning--- stalking will do you no good! LOL.
Put her phone # on them this
Put her phone # on them this time. }:)
LOL Love it!
LOL Love it!
If you are still on FB, you
If you are still on FB, you should share the meme
"What has been seen cannot be unseen"
Guilty of doing the same and
Guilty of doing the same and paying the same horrible price. We both have BM blocked as well, but from time to time when things with SD get out of sorts I will do a little stalking to see what's been going on in BMs world....she's the showy, social climber sort and she is always posting braggy comments about places she is going. Her friends are big on posting photos and tagging in EVERYWHERE they go.
I have seen bikini shots, drunk party girl shots (BM is way pas the party girl stage) and the MOTY shots with SD...all equally sickening and all make me regret looking.
Honestly I was quite shocked
Honestly I was quite shocked by some of the stuff she has been up to lately.
A fancy Christmas party with a formal dress?
A vacation with her BF?
She's smiling. (WOW!)
Even an album titled "Me and the best of me" with pics of the skids in it....
Had we not been on lunch break and on friend's cell phone, I probably would have spent hours disecting each photo. LOL
I could only see photos, she had her actual wall blocked for non friends.
LOL....yep, me too. BM and I
LOL....yep, me too. BM and I have mutual "friends",so I can seem pretty much everything as a "friends of friends" and I have found myself spending WAY more time than I care to admit disecting photos and posts.
And when I first met my DH, I went WAY back and looked at ALL her posts...very interesting and good to see her pattern of behavior.
quick question - how does one
quick question - how does one go about snooping on a private facebook if there's no mutual 'friends' that can pull it up for you? CUZ I NEEEED TOOOOOOO......
In BM's case, all of her
In BM's case, all of her photos are public. Where me, my photos all default to Friends Only, because I set that a long time ago.
I am assuming her wall is private, because all it was, was game requests, game stats, etc. Which is usually public. I didnt scroll down too far to look at her wall. It could be public and she just hasnt posted anything in awhile???
Honestly I really didnt want to look at her wall in the event that she had posted about DH or me, and I would then have to be super mad and annoyed about it.
ETA- We have no mutual friends btw. Her photos were just public.
If you cant see things on her
If you cant see things on her FB try google photo. You would be surprised what shows up on there regardless of what privacy settings are on her FB. An ex friend of mine from high school recently got arrested for drug pushing and I blocked her so I cant see her FB and its not worth unblocking her. I just googled her and there were all kinds of pics of her, her daughter, her friends (with her), her husband, etc not to mention a lovely mug shot...lol. And if there is anything out there about them in news, police records, etc you can also find that on google, plus sometimes it directs you to other sites (twitter, etc) they are on that they aren't thinking you are on. Im guilty of snooping from time to time when BM puts in more court papers. I got some great drunk photos of her this way and they were brought up in court since she kept calling DH an alcoholic...ummm he only drank like that when he was with you BM and if I had been with you I probably would have drowned myself drinking.
I bet you look hot! So it's
I bet you look hot! So it's okay! BM on the other hand.... A hippo in a bikini in weird poses on the beach could have posted a picture on FB and looked better then BM