So once again my FIL has intervened in our "family situation". In December he came to watch the skids. He made the decision to sign one of them up for a sports team, in which we would have to drive this kid almost an hour away three times a week. BS!!! First of all he isn't here to take them, secondly their father works ALOT, and I don't want to take him b/c he is disrespectful to me. Then I get the lecture that, "that's what mom's do". BS!!!! And then I learn that the coach has scheduled a practice on Valentine's Day at 5pm..... WTF??!!! I'm so mad! When do I get my time or at least a turn? It gets better as my husband informed me this evening that he was going to look at a deer lease with his father on Saturday. Oh wait, he just bought a house without consulting me.... and now a deer lease??? But I'm supposed to believe that my husband didn't put any money in?? He hasn't exactly been very trustworthy (over what he thinks are little things-withholding info-it's still lying to me). So I am venting and I don't know what to do. I think it would be better if I just didn't know any different and just turned a blind eye. I'm so sick of that! That's just a very small taste of our issues.
My DH was supposed to go with me to the local winery on Friday night. It's a special event for the volunteers at specific school function and I was the chairperson.... I can't miss it! He was supposed to go and yet once again, I'm getting blown off for a kid event. I'm tired of this mess.