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I need advice in regards to dealing with SS; violence???

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Submitted by txstepmom32 on Wed, 06/15/2011 - 10:06am

My DH and I managed to work through some of our issues. I found out I was pregnant, which was what we wanted and the issues with the middle SS seem to be getting worse. I am due in 4 weeks.

I need some advice in regards to the SS and some comments that he has made to me, not in the presence of my husband. They scare me.

A few months ago I was in the car taxiing them around and the SS asks what a will is. As I tried to give him a brief explanation he says out of the blue something in effect of I think about you being dead or about killing you....

Am I entitled to anything?

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Submitted by txstepmom32 on Sat, 02/06/2010 - 7:16am

I want to leave my DH. He refuses to make time to discuss our issues and still expects me to show up for closing on a $400,000 home in 5 days. The problem is, if things aren't working between us now, then what heppens in a month when I've packed my crap and I'm ready to leave. I'm ready to leave now. We moved across country for his job last Feb. I was unable to find a full-time job in my area of healthcare and had to work prn, "as needed". This position provided no guaranteed hours nor benefits.

Well.... just as I expected

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Submitted by txstepmom32 on Fri, 02/05/2010 - 9:25pm

One comment in the car and DH gets out doesn't want to go. I guess it doesn't help that I had told him I didn't want him to go especially after his attitude today. Everything is great until you call him on it. Then leaves the SS10 with the coach. I don't understand why DH has to feel like "he's in" or "he's cool". Personally I could care less what these people think about me. Not only that he's leaving at 7 am in the morning to go look at that land that he assured me he didn't have to buy, that his dad did it.

Aggravation/frustration doesn't even begin to describe it!!!

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Submitted by txstepmom32 on Thu, 02/04/2010 - 10:16pm

So once again my FIL has intervened in our "family situation". In December he came to watch the skids. He made the decision to sign one of them up for a sports team, in which we would have to drive this kid almost an hour away three times a week. BS!!! First of all he isn't here to take them, secondly their father works ALOT, and I don't want to take him b/c he is disrespectful to me. Then I get the lecture that, "that's what mom's do". BS!!!! And then I learn that the coach has scheduled a practice on Valentine's Day at 5pm..... WTF??!!! I'm so mad!

I think I'm losing my mind too!!!!

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Submitted by txstepmom32 on Mon, 02/01/2010 - 4:45pm

I recently married a man with 3 sons, ages now are 8, 10, 13. I thought I knew of the emotional baggage surrounding the BM. Long story short....she had an affair with the neighbor, separated from my now husband and then 2 weeks prior to the second custody hearing she killed herself. My husband had full custody prior to. The children are unaware of how she died. All they know is that "mommy got sick and died". There were allegations of neglect from her own parents, who called CPS on her after leaving them home alone when they were 5, 7, and 10. They tried to make their own dinner.