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Well.... just as I expected

txstepmom32's picture

One comment in the car and DH gets out doesn't want to go. I guess it doesn't help that I had told him I didn't want him to go especially after his attitude today. Everything is great until you call him on it. Then leaves the SS10 with the coach. I don't understand why DH has to feel like "he's in" or "he's cool". Personally I could care less what these people think about me. Not only that he's leaving at 7 am in the morning to go look at that land that he assured me he didn't have to buy, that his dad did it. Well his dad can't even walk two steps without a basic cigarette hanging from his jowels and he just had heart surgery not too long ago that kept getting infected. what is he going to do. On top of that the FIL is supposed to come and "help us move" Ladies...am I just plain stupid? How is one man who is on the verge of death's door with unmanageable diabetes (non-compliant), post heart surgery, and still smokes at lease 2 ppd supposed to help??? And my husband had shoulder surgery 4 weeks ago and is in a sling for another 4 weeks. So... i've got 2 gimps to help me???? And no, i don't know anyone here that can help.....My frustrations are mounting, mounting, mounting. He still refuses to sit down and talk to me cause "you made me mad". Well a-hole, you've made me incredibly mad wiht all the drama and BS and half of it could of been avoided if you would just open your mouth and speak something intelligent!!!!AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I AM LITERALLY GOING TO PULL ALL OF MY HAIR OUT

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soverysad's picture

I love how men think they can act like children when they're mad, but when we're mad we're supposed to suck it up and not be selfish. When I am mad, my dh knows it!

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!

txstepmom32's picture

Yes... I know. When I'm mad he knows it too. I think it was just an excuse for him not to go. He ended up watching a movie with the kids, and I was too mad to go. This morning he sure did make the time to go and look at that property though, which may I add is 3 plus hours away. I just don't get it. It's like he expects for me to just roll over and agree with whatever he decides and be happy. Money doesn't buy happiness.