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I'm so mad right now!!
So dh and ss are on their way here for ss visit. Today was the day we planned on talking to ss, like I posted about yesterday. Normally dh picks up ss and comes right back home- a 4hr round trip. Last night he decides to stay in town with his mom (mil) and drove back this morning. Fine. Except dh took ss to the fair last night!!! What the heck? It's not tht I care he took him. If it were any other weekend, then fine. But this is the weekend we are hving this serious talk and what does dh do? Oh, let me reward this kid for his abusive behavior!!! Genius dh.
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Not my fault I get to enjoy my weekend!
So this weekend ss has some school events going on. We don't live in the same town as him, but both our families do. Anyway, instead of missing visitation or having ss miss those non-mandatory vents, he decided to play nice dad. We knew before school started about this weekend and dh told ss about a month ago that he would get him to this activities and they'd just stay the weekend with mil. I never had any intentions on going with dh. So 2 weeks ago I told dh the kids and I weren't going. Honestly, I just didn't want to go.
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My Labor Day weekend
Let's see...here is how our weekend with ss went:
1. Ss started off mad Friday because he missed a football game & bm rubbed it in his face thT he was missing it because he had to go with dh.
2. Ss cried fri night because dh didn't buy him something at hhe store (oh, the horror!)
3. Ss cried sat morning because dh had other plans than what ss wanted to do
4. Ss got happy again when dh allowed him to stay with my mil to do what ss wanted to do anyway while we carried on with dh's plans. (no ss for few hours yea!)
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SS12 messed up! (I'm laughing!)
So this summer dh was contemplating giving ss12 an extra phone he had. (this is not a phone blog. I know people have mixed feelings about that.) SS has had a phone since 3rd or 4th grade because his mom wanted him to have one. 'She' pays the service and everything. Last year dh got him a new one because the one ss had was in really bad condition and the phone was his Christmas gift. So anyway we have an extra phone that ss has asked for.
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Is it wrong that I don't feel bad or guilty
Ok, so a little background first (in case you don't know). Dh and I have been married 6 years. He has ss12 from his high school gf. They never married and actually broke up before ss was even 2. Together we have 3 kids- DD1 (5), DS (almost 4), and DD2 (5mths). When we first got married ss came over eow. He had his own room. I did the 'good' stepmom thing- spent time alone with him, triedto make nice with bm, buy bm Christmas present 'from ss, helped with pickups/dropoffs, attended ss school events with dh...blah blah. Then after DS was born things went downhill.
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AT LAST!!!!!
Our extended visitation for the summer is OVER!!! I literally wanted to yell and jump up and down when they left but I contained myself in front of my kids. SS was excited too, of course. No one likes these extended visits but DH feels since he is allowed the time and since he pays cs then he should get him the 30 days. Anyhow, regular eow visits resume but no more extended visits for awhile!! Even DH said that now our house can get back to normal. Exactly.
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3 more days!!!
3 more days til this extended summer vacation is OVER!!! SS is ready to go home and so am I!! Let's see, last week DH took off to spend with SS. It was a load off my shoulders and I totally disengaged. So nice! I wrote about the non-appreciative attitude ss had last week & how it made dh mad. I also wrote about how our bd was feeling left out. So this week dh took off a few days to take theboys on an overnight trip. Ss did say thanks to dh! But now the constant fighting has begun between ss12 and bs3. Durin the trip (just the boys) dh said ss fought a lot with bs.
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