I am so happy skid visit at mil's is over. YAY. It's funny how I can predict the exact conversations and situations that will come up, the same old tired crap.....I never enjoy skid visits, I detest them. I just sit there and put on my happy face and grit my teeth until I get through it. But this visit was extra irritating.

Sending out Christmas cards just seems like more of a hassle than something enjoyable now a days. I often get confused on what to do. For example, DH's brother has a gf that got "accidently pregnant". They have gone back and fourth always fighting and have been on the brink of calling it quits more times than I can count. Do I write her name in the x-mas card? How do i know that they arent going to be split up by the time the cards make it to their house? One of my friends has a kid with her husband and he also has a kid from his ex gf. She doesn't really care for skid.

Arggg my evil plan has failed...This weekend is the dreaded skid weekend visit out at MIL's. I starting feeling like I was catching a cold over the weekend, and tuesday it really came on full blown. I still feel like crap and was pretty positive that Saturday I would feel like crap too and then I wouldn't feel "well enough" to go out for skid visit. Plus I wouldn't want to "get anyone else sick" either }:) Well my plan was going swimmingly, but after DH heard how bad I sounded and looked when he got home from work today, dragged me down to the drugstore to get cold medication. DAMMIT!

Something I have been wondering for a long time and still do; why don't more men (or women) make sure that they are ready to get into a serious relationship after they've had a child with someone else (whether they were married or not because lets face it nowadays you can know someone for a second and end up having a kid with them for some reason). I know that not all BM's are "evil" but the vast majority seem unsavory.