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Submitted by tofurkey on Thu, 11/17/2011 - 3:22pm

So I got some information in the mail yesterday in regards to my life insurance.

And of course, my brain won't shut off and I start thinking about a million things.

One of those things being, when I die, I don't want SD at my funural. Seriously.

This situation has brought nothing but stress and issues to my life. I swear if my husband brought her to my funural I would come back from the dead to haunt his ass haha.

Having kids of our own? What will the outcome be??

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Submitted by tofurkey on Thu, 11/10/2011 - 11:29am

I haven't been on here for a while. Mostly because my jobs eat up most of my day and at the end of it the last thing I feel like doing is hopping on another computer. But as I have reached a new fork in the road, I've decided to come back and ask the advice of the wonderful step talker's Smile

Skid x-mas visit......

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Submitted by tofurkey on Tue, 12/21/2010 - 6:00pm

So this past weekend, DH had skid visit out at MIL's and since BM is going to have SD for Christmas, we did Christmas for her during visit. It was hideous....

So, we get to MIL's and the normal skid visit b.s. happens.... SD clings onto DH like a leach hurts his already hurting back by hanging all over him, skid "sits pretty" in her highchair, interupts everyone while they are trying to talk, whines, cries, kicks me underneath the table.....

I don't HAVE TO like her...

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Submitted by tofurkey on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 2:22pm

Taken me long enough to realize this....I don't HAVE TO like DH's daughter anymore than I have to like a total stranger on the street....

I made a comment to DH the other day about skid visit this weekend. I was joking around about how staying home and wrapping would be so much more fun than going out to MIL's. But, he knows that I'm not looking forward to super happy fun time. That's when he said to me "Admit it, you like SD"

"SM is the reason for breakdown in communication"

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Submitted by tofurkey on Tue, 12/14/2010 - 9:37am

The last time that BM dragged DH to court, they both seperately met with these family law advisors. DH told me that BM told the advisors that I was "the reason for breakdown in communication between her and DH and she feels she cannot contact him when she should." I am the reason for the "breakdown in communication"?! How about you ARE NOT together anymore? How about that? Okay, yeah I'll play, yes I am the reason for the "breakdown of indecent communication" - damn right! No, I am not okay with BM texting/calling DH about how she "wants to be a family".

Funny Analogy....

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Submitted by tofurkey on Sat, 12/11/2010 - 9:05am

Story: Man meets Woman. Man and woman think it will be "fun" to go test drive a Lamborghini. Man tells woman to make sure she puts her safety belt on. Woman tells man she always does and will, but does not. Man puts safety belt on, but the incorrect way to insure protection. Man and Woman get back from joy ride.

Woman: Well that was nice but I should let you know that I am taking test drives with other men too

Man: That's fine, I didn't want buy the Lamborghini anyways. So long!

Man leaves. Woman shows up at man's door 1 month later.

SD6 and Christmas present

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Submitted by tofurkey on Thu, 12/09/2010 - 11:55am

The way DH and I have worked it is that instead of me and DH running around trying to get 400 different people presents for x-mas, he pretty much takes care of his side, and I pretty much take care of mine. He gets daughter, siblings, nieces and nephews, and father all something on his own. I get my mother's SO, my sister, cousin and cousin's two kids all something on my own. We usually both get a little something extra for each other's mother's as well as by ourselves. We just put both of our names on all of the presents.

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