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The PRICKLY PARENT
From Children of the Self-Absorbed by Nina Brown...
THE PRICKLY PARENT (this is also BM and SD's response)
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I'm curious to see how many of you out there have a bio with some of these characteristics...
All of the following is from the book, "Children of the Self Absorbed" by Nina Brown. It's actually a workbook for adults to help them get over being the child of a narcissist. I bought it to see if it could help me figure out what is going on with SD and BM. There are 4 types of Narcissistic Parents .... I'm going to do this in 4 blogs... ! This is the first. It also has what the child's response is to each type of parent. These "classifications" and the child's responses are what really convinced DH and I about BM.
Weary of what is... Wary of what is to come... Long tired ramble
Every time I sit down to write this, I feel a deep exhaustion, and more fear than usual of "what could be".
Ok - Everyone - Did you see this?
http://www.parentdish.com/2009/10/01/woman-terminates-adoption-because-s...
It's about a mom who was going to adopt a child, and then 18 months later, gives the child back because she "can't bond with it".
This is my favorite quote from the article...
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I had to share this with you all.... SD watches a move in Child Psych about "Blended Families"...
She said the movie was current, yet so out of reality she couldn't believe it. The main message of the movie was to remember...
SCOOP
Supportive Response
Communication
A double dose of Optimism!! :sick:
Patience
Look, I know I'm mostly rainbows and butterflies... but this had me even wanting to rip my ears off. Luckily I didn't see it or I'd be typing blind after ripping my eyes out too.
I asked her if it was for Pooper Scooper... but she said no one brought that up!!
SD is starting to not take sh*t from anyone.... And now for some religious questions! Any Input??!!!
Well, the poor girl has been holding back her emotions and questions for so long it is now alllllll coming out.
In early 2006, when DH and I got engaged, it must have bothered SD because she asked one of her Religion teachers....
SD had counseling appointment today... Sita - you nailed it! Long ramble, need to clear my head....
SD finally had a counseling appointment alone today. She asked the counselor her questions and not surprisingly, the counselor was upset and disturbed. She wanted to know where SD got the idea to question if she was emotionally abused.
Counselor basically told SD that, in her opinion, SD was not emotionally abused because her mom never meant to hurt her!! Sita - just like you said emotional abuse requires some form of "intent to hurt"... Counselor pretty much had said that, and thank you - I was able to reconfirm that in the car using your words!! Thank you!!
SD asking me really TOUGH questions... BM pisses me off yet again. Long vent.
SD had another counseling session with her mom on Sept 14th. It was after the whole stupid "Hope Floats" weekend. I was pretty discouraged after that session and the past 12 days I have been struggling with pretty much everything!!
An apology to new members....
I read someone post that "advice is scarce around here"... unless it has to do with drama, etc.
I know for myself, I haven't been able to post too much advice lately.
I've been able to post on the "fun" blogs. And even jumped in on one or two of the "hot topic" blogs.
But I have to say, that my head is just hurting and I don't feel like I can contribute too much or too objectively right now.
I'm swimming in stress over here. So I am having a hard time "contributing".
sorry!
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I think the unspoken stress in our household has reached huge proportions!! Help please!
Ladies - I'm calling out to you for help. And whether that help just be a story to get my mind of this or a joke or whatever.... Please just write! And I'm REALLY NOT asking for any praise or anything like that.. That makes me uncomfortable.
It started today because I keep having trouble getting myself out of bed and facing the day.
And then in the shower, and ever since, I just feel like crying. Like I want to cry all day. And nothing different is happening!!