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not a nice surprise this morning

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So after my blah day yesterday and my being angry at dh, this morning turned out to have a not such a nice surprise for us. After typing in my last entry I heard DH calling me up to the bedroom. I thought he wanted to ya know, have sex or something, so I am teasing him as I walk into the bathroom. He is standing there in tears holding out the towels for me to look at and on it are big globs of his hair Sad .

typical guy

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Today is my birthday. My morning startedout rough and I was crying b/c I miss my parents who used to always call me and sing to me on my special day no matter what they were doing or what I was doing or where in life, I could count on them acknowledging my day! Well they've both passed away in the past 3 years so no more phone calls.

Anyways so my older sis send me a link to a song called "It's my party and I'll cry if I want to"... and it cheered me up.

another off topic question

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Here's another problem I am having with exh, I have an attorney and exh is representing himself. Well he is always emailing MY attorney about things and it's running up my bill. I have asked my atty to send him the bill but it all falls under the catagory of my atty working on my behalf. Well my exh is simply running on at the mouth and it's costing me so much, so when can I say to my atty that enough is enough lagally. Can I say, we have covered the subjuect so now if exh wants to continue he can pick up the tab?

a child support question

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Hi all, I have an interesting question. Bs has gone to Job Corps, it's a federally funded career training college. Well he is not yet 18 yrs old so he is a minor and still needs things like clothes, cash sent for snacks and things. I spent almost $1,000.00 on him before he left last month on clothes, duffle bag, shoes, gloves, you name it he needed it. I didn't mind. Ok so here's the question, my ex is now wanting to take me to court to have the child support changed b/c he feels like now bs is out on his own and not needing our support anymore.

about to blow a fuse

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I am sitting here with dh after he had a gruelling morning of chemo. Ss19 walks into the door and barely asks how he is and then asks for money for a can of chew. ARG. DH reams me out when I send cash to my bs17 who is in college. Ss19 is NOT in college HAS a job and can buy his OWN chew for god's sake. Makes me fume. At least bs is getting an education.

It's that simple and it's that complicated.

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This morning DH was going on about this and that about our (my) new house and how he's going to fix this and install that and put this in and fix that... I am just sitting there feelings this blah feeling. I keep having this "block" in my mind about moving, like when you actually focus on something it disappears, like a shadow or ghost. I know what it is but looking at it straight on is like looking into a vortex. The vortex being having to live with ss16 in a house that is less then half the size of this one, and living with the shitzu that I cannot stand either.

dreading moving, family tv time, and how I pointed out to dh how annoying ss is to me

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I bought a house that is half the size home we're in now. This is not bad in some ways b/c now we are down to just two teen boys so it's a reasonably sized home for us, and this helps so the kids who've moved out cannot move back in. However, I have gotten used to living in a home that is big enough so I can escape ss16 when he begins getting on my nerves, which is most of the time. I am not sure how I am going to stand living in a one bathroom home with two teenaged boys :sick: Just hearing ss16 get up in the mornings and pee is about enough to make me want to run outside and barf.

I'm suspicious but just watching and waiting

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So here's the deal. I am still not trusting DH and his secret texts. Remember a month ago we had a big fight b/c I caught him texting his ex gf? Well I blocked her number for awhile and then unblocked it and was just checking the phone bill online this evening. I noticed a number with an area code that was unusual and this number started up the day after our big fight last month. So I researched the area code and sure enough it's in the state where DH told me once accidently where ex gf moved to.

I'm having a pissy afternoon :(

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I am not sure what's going on with ss16 now. He is acting really sick. Key word here is "acting" b/c I honestly don't think he's sick. He knows his dad starts chemo this week and now he's announcing that he is "positive" he has mono b/c he ate someone else's food in the cafeteria at school. He doesn't even have a fever but "OH MY GOSH I HAVE SWOLLEN LYMPH NODES LIKE YOU DAD, SO PLZ TAKE ME TO THE DOCTOR". So now DH, admidst everything else going on in life right now has to deal with the stress of ss16 (IMFHO) having fake diseases to GET ATTENTION.

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