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Submitted by step off already on Mon, 03/31/2014 - 1:20pm

I thought I'd share BM's "woe is me, I give up text" since I know have access to my laptop for posting (as opposed to my phone).

Saturday night at 7:41 pm:

Hey..dnt want to fite in court..i sill give u full custody..im homeless..so plz take care of SS... Thank u. Goodbye.... Ur a great dad...thank.plz just love SS. u know pino style. i love him. just tired... won. k. i wnt be here so take care. thank u... bye Life is hard... I give up..noting to live for...u won..im tired..I cnt.. reLy Im dne... by

Like sand through the hour glass

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Submitted by step off already on Sun, 03/30/2014 - 2:02pm

Bm sends dh a text last night that reads something like this:

I don't want to fight you in court. You can have full custody. Take care of our son. You're a good dad. I'm homeless. I have nothing to live for.

Court is Wednesday for her to pay child support based on the case dh opened with the department of child support services. Wonder if she will show or if this was just another drunken text after a fight with her gf.

Feeling so Blah about DH -- caution, a long drawn out bitch fest

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Submitted by step off already on Tue, 03/25/2014 - 12:35am

Maybe it's because he "misunderstood" me and invited his friend on our weekend away this weekend.

Maybe it's because he knew the only thing I wanted to do this weekend was get a massage and relax. (
None if which happened and dd8 mo was sick and I was up all might with her puking on me while he watched YouTube videos on his phone)

SS14's bday weekend with BM

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Submitted by step off already on Mon, 03/24/2014 - 7:48pm

SS was so very excited for his weekend with bm. She made him promises of go carts and movies and parties and presents and fun! Fun! Fun!

What a surprise (not) when we picked him up and he had four helium balloons and a pair of shoes (nothing fancy). We asked about the fun weekend and he said he got to open presents Friday night and they went to "some movie" on Saturday.

Dh invites guests on today's mini vacation and doesn't tell me

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Submitted by step off already on Fri, 03/21/2014 - 11:56am

I'm so angry! My friend gave us her three bedroom time share condo in Tahoe this weekend at the las minute. We don't have the kids so it was just going to be us and baby. We tried inviting another couple with a baby but they had plans.

Dh says we can hang out with his friend that lives up there and his wife. (I've met the friend a total of two times for less than 30 minutes each). I'm thinking that that means we'll meet for dinner, they'll show us their favorite spots, etc... As it usually does when you are visiting a town someone lives in.

More Ramblings on the Crazy BM

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Submitted by step off already on Tue, 03/18/2014 - 6:24pm

SS had his COed call with her last night. He made sure to call her right on the dot. This weekend is his scheduled time with her and since it will be the last visit before his birthday next week, he was expecting that she'd be like, "oh, it's your bday... we are doing something so very special... can't wait to see you" or something like that.

Update2 on the Craziest BM on Stalk

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Submitted by step off already on Tue, 03/18/2014 - 1:18pm

The DA called DH on Friday. He chatted with him, said she was clearly breaking the order and they could go haul her in and it would probably go to jury trial. He said that the only thing that "could" keep her from getting convicted was the fact that she included, "sorry, that wasn't meant for you" each time she began texting him.

He suggested waiting, continuing to document everything and she'll blow it again. Now DH has a paper trail and it gets stronger every time she does this and will eventually help him extend the RO or make it permanent.

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