Maybe it's because he "misunderstood" me and invited his friend on our weekend away this weekend.

Maybe it's because he knew the only thing I wanted to do this weekend was get a massage and relax. (
None if which happened and dd8 mo was sick and I was up all might with her puking on me while he watched YouTube videos on his phone)

Maybe it's because that even though I was able to get BMs sister to get a hotel for her visit and a rental car but he still thinks it's necessary for her to call him when her plane arrives so "we" can go pick her up from the airport and can take her to a place to rent a car - even though she's a 32 year old woman and can rent her own car at the airport and then give us a call when she checks into the hotel.

Maybe it's because every time I try to let him know what I need, what is upsetting me or what my boundaries are, he thinks I'm starting a fight and starts yelling.

Maybe it's because I'm flying across the country tomorrow for day 1 of a new job where I'll be making nearly 50% more than I currently do. Maybe it's because this new job will pay 5-10 times more than what his average earnings have been the past 5 years.

Maybe it's because that even though he is currently playing the role of stay at home dad, he can't seem to get breakfast dishes done before dinner, can't make it to the grocery store on his own ( but will be happy to tag along with me if I mention I'm going), and can't get a load of laundry done. Ever.

Maybe because my pms us through the roof and I'm 8.5 months post partum.

He's happily snoring away... I'm taking care of baby who still isn't 100% and stressing about my trip. Alternately, he must be exhausted about making the kids' lunches in the morning.