And who ends up pouting?

You bet! Ss14. $20 was missing from his stocking/ may have fallen out or never made it In but that's all he could focus on. Even after the surprise trip to Disneyland.

All kids got $80 in their stockings, disney trips for next week, gifts under the tree... But poor SS couldn't find the missing $20 so he poted. Couldn't give an answer regarding his favorite gift.

I told dh that this was unacceptable and not only his he pouring after receiving about $500+ worth of gifts but he also didn't say thank you. I also asked dh if he appreciated the gift from SS (which by the way was non existent). Of course my kids had gifts for both of us - both individually and as a group

At least dh said something to him as after my little blow up. SS said thanks. Two seperate times and said he's excited about the trip.