This is the woman who told the judge she ou works 5 hours a week so she can not possibly pay child support and she should actually get spousal support instead. Judge didn't buy it and ordered no support to no one.
Here we are one year later.

First bm picks up SS13 in her new Chevy Malibu (with the $2000 Bugatti rims that she made sure to brag to him about) and tonight at the exchange she is in a Lexus. Ss13 says she's had that car for a while and that a friend gave it to her when they left the state.
My questions:

SS13's Maternal GP died a long time ago as did the Great Maternal GP. The estate(s) is/are now just getting finalized due to the drug addicted people in the picture aka BM's family.

The family would like to leave money in a trust for SS13 for when he turns 25. They are not giving anything to BM. They are talking about $15K but it sounds like there may be more - everyone is being very dramatic and sly since the initial family member that was the executor was stealing from the estate - or something.

BM claims she has no job. She also buys SS crap all the time and likes to make sure he knows how much things cost, however she won't pitch in for his schooling or even fill out financial aid forms for him to attend private HS.

So, since she's not willing to help him get into the private HS he'd like to attend, she's been encouraging him to join the service instead. Now, i'm all for people joining the service. My exh became a Marine after HS and it truly straightened him up, he got to see the world, have many adventures and serve his country.

Bum texted dh tonight (disregarding her RO) saying "SS13 has a test - Boy Scout". It was meant to be a dig since we were all at the school for my two boys' scout meeting. SS and dd we're studying in the lobby since the local library was closed for the holiday. As had his court ordered call during the time so he must have told her what was going on.