I walk out of my room in my bathrobe to get a snack and SD14 is sitting on the sofa with one of her friends. I asked her to come over to me and questioned why her friend was sitting on my sofa when no one asked me or DH if they could have a friend over. SD was very nonchalant about it. She tells me that because we know this friend that she thought it would be ok and her mom said she can sleep over.

Now that SD has moved in indefinitely I am wondering how we will have any space once the baby arrives. I heard that BM is moving her sleezy BF in with her so she is basically choosing him over her daughter and she has only known that guy for less than 3 months according to SD. So SD will not be staying with BM anytime soon according to DH and herself and BM is fine with that even called her own daughter a B*tch. I agree that I don't always like her but I wouldn't put her in harms way and have the chance to be sexually harassed or worse by BM's BF.

She has been wearing the same outfit for two days. When DH asks her to help around the house she just moves things around in extra slow motion. Her room is just one pile of clothes stuffed in a corner, unmade bed and soda cans and an open bag of chips on her desk and wrappers all over the floor and her vanity is a mess with makeup open and spilled everywhere and tissues and cotton balls every where and that is what she calls clean so imagine it dirty.

I went out and got a dark black bob wig and clip on earrings and a halter top. I clipped one of the earrings on my bottom lip like SD and put on one of my longest black skirts and the halter top with my small baby bump sticking out. I even went over the top with eyeliner.