She opened with explaining that she didn't want to cause a fight. She then told BF that SS was still having headaches and she brought him to the doctor who agreed that it was probably due to stress. BF asked, "Is SS going to school?" Uh, yeah, BM said. "Good." BF said. BM started to complain about how BF is putting stress on SS with his custody lawsuit. "Do you have a job?" BF asked her. She replied that she did, that the paperwork wasn't finished and she didn't know when she would be starting, but that she does have a job.

BF got an email from BM asking him to call her and speak to SS. Well, how is he supposed to call when she doesn't have a phone? So he called BM's parents' house and asked if she was around. BM's mother said no...which started into a 20 minute conversation on BM's mother's opinion on how BF shouldn't "take SS from BM". She kept saying that SS has always been taken care of. Yes, maybe by them, but not by BM.

I just don't have the patience for this right now. BM's alter ego sent me a message yesterday for the first time in months (since BM's internet has been turned off). Apparently, she's gotten wind that we're moving and was asking about that and the baby and whatnot. I talked to my friend who happens to be BM's only friend and confidante, and he said that BM also talked to him yesterday for the first time in months. This morning, BF got an email from BM claiming to be from SS which really upset him - also the first internet contact he's had from her in months.

BM was served this morning with the petition to modify custody. BF's lawyer said that she was uncharacteristically calm when he served her with the papers. He is used to her flipping out and making a scene, but she was completely the opposite today. I think that's because it was in a different venue in front of the DA and judge that she had never seen before, so she was trying to make a good impression and preserve her reputation (since it's ruined in both her county and ours). I also assume that she knew this was coming.