BF loaned the money to BM and she has already paid part of it back, but won't be able to pay the rest as soon as she thought. Apparently her decision to have the child support payments sent through the state have come back to bite her in the butt again. BF paid more than he was supposed to (as he almost always does) and she was counting on that check to pay him back what he loaned to her. Well, instead of paying her the whole amount, the state decided to send her what she was supposed to get - about $150 less. She called BF upset, thinking he had lied to her about the amout he sent.

SS likes to drink milk. When he is thirsty throughout the day, he will go get a glass of milk out of the fridge. He drank 3 glasses of milk one right after the other this afternoon. On his fourth trip back to the kitchen, I said, "No more milk, please." He said ok. A few minutes later, when SS had left the room, BF asked me what was wrong with SS getting milk. I told him he'd already had 3 glasses. I thought maybe he hadn't noticed.

BM hasn't called or emailed to harrass us since BD was born in September. The only contact she's had has been every other weekend to try to keep SS from coming on visitations claiming he's "sick" and shouldn't be around the baby, which BF has been consistent on not giving in to for the past couple of months. She only calls SS a couple of times a day now when he's here. It almost feels normal. It's been really nice! I wish it would stay this way.

BF went to court with BM on Monday over the child support lawsuit that she so intelligently presented him with when I was pregnant with our child. His lawyer presented worksheets to the board of child support that was hearing their case showing how with both parties' incomes set to minimum wage and accounting for our child together, BF's CS will be going down. The committee agreed. BM went off about how she didn't believe it was fair for BF's income to be calculated at minimum wage when she knew he made much more money than that.