I can't believe how low this woman will go!! BF and SD went grocery shopping yesterday. I stayed home :). A few minutes of peace for me lol. Well they have all the Thanksgiving displays out and she wants to get all this stuff for Thanksgiving. BF tells her you spend Tgiving with your mom this year. I will pick you up on Saturday. Cue sad droopy eyes from SD "mom said she can't afford to do Tgiving this year so can I go to your house?". Of course BF puffs up with pride to the rescue of course SD you come home with us. Now I have two problems with this.

I received an EOB from our local hospital. IT was for BM stating that it was declined because she was not covered. BF took her off the insurance three years ago and last year the company switched to a new provider. BM doesn't have any insurance cards for the new insurance provider. Even though SD is covered under it BM doesn't have the card. She has never even asked for one. We figured because she was going to stop taking SD to the doctor once she found out she had to pay the co-pays.

Because he allows it that's why!!! I have had it with the damm guilty spending he wants to do all the time. Her mom is a POS who doesn't spend a dime of the CS she gets on SD. She just tells her "ask your dad" which in turn means ask me!! So BM drops the ball and we have to pick up the slack so SD doesn't miss out.

Do you plan all activities for when the skids are with you? I know that we plan kid friendly things for when SD is with us but we also do alot of things with just BF and I. SD always whines about it and says its not fair. She thinks that we can't have any fun times unless she is home to enjoy it. This is even down to her favorite dinners. If she hears that we had something for dinner that she likes she gets pouty. I can see her point a little because she was the center of the world for BF before I came along. Now she has to share his attention and I don't want to be mean.