As much as my SS8 annoys me at times, I still have concerns. We have him every Wednesday & Friday night and every 2nd weekend, when he's not with us, his mum is meant to have care, but what concerns me is, she is hardly ever there, she has a new boyfriend and from what I can gather, spends a lot of time there, without him. Instead he is being looked after by his grandparents, and her sister (they live together) yesterday instead of saying " going back to mums" he said "going back to Joanna's (her sister) I found this slightly strange and am worried the kid doesn't know what's going on in his life. Thoughts?