I have just ended it with my SO. I'm not sure if anyone recals my posts, but our recent fights have involved, shouting, threatening to be kicked out of the car and house, and kicking furniture. The last straw has been today, I work with his ex and have a good relationship with her, she has done nothing wrong by me, he has told me I'm not allowed to talk to her apart from in a work relationship, or else the relationship is over, he said i obvsously have no regard for his feelings.

I have no kids of my own and haven't really been around many so I am wondering if what my SS8 does is normal or just rude. So he had a sleep over at a friends on Friday night, Saturday afternoon I asked him what he did, his response was "I can't remember" my OH over heard this and got it out of him what he did, OH was rather pissed at him  because he knew that SS did know what he did he just couldn't be bothered talking to me. Then yesterday morning, me and OH were sitting RIGHT next to each other, SS woke up and said "Morning Dad" completing ignoring me.

As much as my SS8 annoys me at times, I still have concerns. We have him every Wednesday & Friday night and every 2nd weekend, when he's not with us, his mum is meant to have care, but what concerns me is, she is hardly ever there, she has a new boyfriend and from what I can gather, spends a lot of time there, without him.

I am so irritated when my SS8 is around. So many things get on my goat. It is impacting on my relationship with OH. I am going to see a counseller tomorrow and hope to god this helps. It was fathers day here on Sunday, SS made his dad a card, I said I like the colour (purple) he said "I choose it cos Dad doesn't like it" WTAF,why would you do this? I cooked a Corned Beef Saturday night, he's a fussy eater and I know he likes this, I didn't get a thanks or this is yummy, nothing.