Thats really all I can say right now. I'm sure every single person on this site can relate to that feeling! MIL already asking for us to come visit this summer...everyone in the family. Thats really only 9-10 people...but thats 9-10 people in a small 3 bedroom house, for AN ENTIRE WEEK. WTH. So far away yet too damn soon! I hate being away from my own house...in an uncomfortable bed...in a noisy crazy house...with my baby...in a podunk town with literally NOTHING to do besides go to Walmart. Sounds great!

So I've been with my DH for a little over 3 years. I split with my exH in 8/05 & met my DH in 11/05. I was still married when we met because our state you have to be legally separated for a year before getting divorced. So anyway, my exH and I STILL have a joint checking account. Apparently I am the only one this bothers. My ex & my DH see nothing wrong with it! I cannot remove myself from the account unless my ex signs.

My DH was on the phone with his grandma yesterday & she says that MIL found cigarettes in SS's pocket & he always smells like smoke. I said he has always smelled like smoke because nasty BM & her nasty boyfriend always smoke inside that little trailer...with 5 kids in it. I said maybe he is, maybe thats why he's always coughing & has a sore throat, or maybe thats from the 2nd hand smoke. I'm surprised MIL hasn't called or emailed about this, she likes to be information central.

I always hear how the divorce rate for first marriages is 50% and second marriages its 75%...and I never understood this until now. I always thought the divorce rate for 2nd marriages would be lower because you go into a 2nd marriage & you already know what marriage involves, you've learned from the mistakes you made in the first one. First marriages often end as a result of being married too young, partners changing, growing apart, wanting different things out of life, not fighting fair, cheating & general immaturity.