So this past weekend, this dude decides to bring his son here during his parenting time (his daughter declined....good!) 

Somehow this joker thinks having ONE of his kids here is easier when I would rather them BOTH have opted out. 

Anyways, everything was going fine until I go downstairs at 9:45pm and see him roaming around the house. I text Disneyland dad to inform him (he knows my stance i think he just intentionally play obtuse) that I am closing the kitchen at 10pm and the living room is closed at 11pm.

Disneyland dad refuses to tell me (in advance or at all) when his weekend parenting time starts/finishes so I rarely know when I have to share my space (that I pay bills in) with his obnoxious loud rule-breaking kids.

His dumb a$$ is like most idiot disneyland dads (overindulging, can't say no, lets his kids make unreasonable demands, etc). 

What pisses me off is how he never follows the court order, doesn't bother to get court order updated since their circumstances have changed, and he takes ALL of the holidays and ALL of the weekends. 

The disneyland dad claimed I did not love him unconditionally. 

And I agreed. 

I think he was taken aback. 

But somewhere he was sold some naive fantasy fairytale that most couples never experience.

That your partner/spouse will unconditionally love you

Maybe this is just me but the moment my spouse cheats, destroys our financial security, treats me our our kids abusively, etc.....I'm safely peacing out of that relationship as quickly as possible. 

I swear some of these bio parents have got to be the most clueless people I know.....

If it takes a village to raise a child, why do these bio parents (who have willing able healthy villages to help them) turn down help, pretend the help of the village is beyond their ability to engage with, act as if they have no resources disposable to them but instead allow their wounded egos to control their maladaptive behavior that they then push onto the step kids?