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Countdown (Cont. Pt 5) He FINALLY Took Them OUT!!!

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 3:52pm

Today. I told the dude exactly what I told his daughter last night - to wrap up the common area takeover after 10pm and if she woke up early she was welcome to ride to the sports competition with me. He thanked me for offering then explained she intended to do a play date this afternoon. While I would have gleefully done what I said I was going to do, I was silently relieved that I didn't have to 'cash out on my offer'. 

Countdown (Cont. Pt 4)

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 4:11pm

Cannot wait to have my own space MINUS Disneyland Dad and weekly skid takeovers 

Disneyland dad got a new schedule (so did I) so currently there is no downtime to give me peace in this house and he is picking them up earlier and earlier to the point there here being loud obnoxious bumps on logs while I'm still working from home. 
 

Countdown (Cont. Pt 4)

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Thu, 11/16/2023 - 5:46am

still haven't told him...

Yesterday the dude decides to randomly invite his sister in law over (despite me telling him I did not like his family popping up without advanced notice). I was triggered and annoyed but I didn't say much because I know I'm not dealing with that sh*t anymore in my own space. 
 

Countdown (Cont. Pt 3) … Shaking the table

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Tue, 11/14/2023 - 9:31pm

*possible trigger warning

 

Trying not to shake it too much ... don't want to live in a war zone next several days but I did want to get out of "sexual obligations" / "bonding"

I ain't a wife and until I am (heck even if/when I am) I'm still not letting any man pressure me into "duties"/not in the mood sex especially when they act undesirable 

So I told him that I had IBS but that wasn't enough of a turn off plus without a diagnosis he wouldn't believe it

OT - Promotion Updates.

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Fri, 11/10/2023 - 11:11pm

Does OT mean off topic? I hope so. 
 

Anyways I'm still a bit clunky in my new role overseeing about 20 people. 
 

Excited and nervous at the same time. 
 

After hours (less managers less employees) I got a little too comfortable and liked a joking post of one of the team members, so I have to go back on Monday and unlike it so I can make sure upper management sees me as a mature professional candidate for the next round of promotions 

Our team finished on top in performance at closing  and I did my best to help and keep them motivated 

Countdown….To Final Exodus

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Fri, 11/10/2023 - 4:54pm

Still haven't told him. 
 

He's still mostly on his BEST behavior (notifying me of skid overnight visitations, splitting holidays with his ex, taking his Beck n Call mobile hotline in another room - sometimes refusing non emergency super late calls when he's trying to sleep for work, getting his kids to help out more, making his kids use appropriate voice tone, not hassling me about warehousing them "In his (my) possession" while he works, doing more of his share of housework, being a decent person vs a militant jerk, etc)

Bioparents, We Do NOT Want Your Grown Kids As Roommates

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Mon, 11/06/2023 - 7:58am

What cr@ck are these delusional bioparents smoking when they think we want their sloppy lazy spawns in our space beyond the age of 18?

Its more than enough dealing with their b*llsh*t through the age of adulthood but till infinity??? 
 

NO!!!

H3ll f*cking NO! 
 

Not enough money, d*ck, promises/hopes/dreams would make me ever want to live with someone's able-bodied ADULT kid. 
 

If a teen decides not to live in a dorm/go to college then they better get a JOB and a ROOMATE.

Manipulative Breeder

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Sun, 11/05/2023 - 5:14pm

Manipulative breeder has "emergency"...most likely something manufactured as a test to see if her B. Beck n Call Service is in on-demand operation....probably is since he ran out of the room so I couldn't evesdrop....My hearing is very sharp so I overheard and evesdropped anyways - enough to know his mini-spouse frantically called him regarding the breeder playing damsel in distress having transportation issues. 
 

Coming to my senses

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Sat, 11/04/2023 - 11:22am

I think the 2 weeks of his kids opting out and making themselves sparse vs demanding to cling/takeover my house was a relief that had me almost  change my mind about leaving. 
 

Anyways the territory invaders are back for another weekend ...until infinity...Andy memory is jogged as to why I will proceed with my plans. 
 

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