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Countdown (Part 9) … RTG

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Thu, 11/30/2023 - 7:12am

I'm doing final packing and my dad text me that since I didn't discuss moving out and the logistics....not to take anything that's "his" 

Okay so I assume he will think that ring is his so I'm leaving that but I do recall one incident where I sold MY expensive blender I got as a birthday gift before I knew him and he lost his everlasting mind, told his coworker, who then was like "is she leaving you because when my exwife left she sold our vacuum?" 

“Smart” Home

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Tue, 11/28/2023 - 7:34pm

So it's almost go time and 2 things I'm trying to future out. 
 

I tried to turn this place into a "smart" home but now I need to make it a dumb home so I can leave in peace. 
 

The garage door and the video doorbell are two areas of concern. 
 

Fake Holidays

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Thu, 11/23/2023 - 7:23pm

...It's really hard to do all this fake acting. I would have gotten a hotel but I remembered I need to buy a hotel for an upcoming sports competition out of town next week so I powered through dealing with

  • his ex-breeder dumping those kids off,
  • his a$$ giving me last minute notice per usual,
  • his kids blowing up his phone at ridiculous hours/running him around, 
  • his family and fake pleasantries / fake conversations

Felt especially ackward when

OT My Employers Pissing Me Off

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Wed, 11/22/2023 - 7:33am

I asked my manager 2 levels up to give me 8 hrs of my PTO (that I earned) so that I could move ... (I asked it in a polite corporate tone)

Probably should have made up a lie (like I need the time for medical issues) or something but I was honest. 

Im trying to move during a weekday while he is at work. 
 

I asked 3 weeks (well in advance IMO) and she keeps blowing me off. 
 

We're in our busy season so really they don't like us taking time out now but 

OT - Coworker is Pissing Me Off

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Mon, 11/20/2023 - 10:25pm

One of my coworkers was in the same role as me during training but out of training I took a role with higher responsibility and I think higher pay. 
 

She admitted that she wished  she would have elected to take this role as well.

 

Now that I'm am "above" her she is completely defiant.

she (I believe intentionally) refuses to respond to my private messages which are time sensitive. 
 

Countdown (Cont. Pt. 6) In Denial Disneyland Dad

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Mon, 11/20/2023 - 7:13am

Still haven't told him. 
 

My therapist recommended telling him to give him time to process. But to tell him we didn't have to break up. 

I could see where this could ease the blow and ideally I wish I could just keep dating him until his kids turn 25 but that's 14 years (his youngest is 11) and I don't want to put my life on pause that long.

Countdown (Cont. Pt 5) He FINALLY Took Them OUT!!!

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 3:52pm

Today. I told the dude exactly what I told his daughter last night - to wrap up the common area takeover after 10pm and if she woke up early she was welcome to ride to the sports competition with me. He thanked me for offering then explained she intended to do a play date this afternoon. While I would have gleefully done what I said I was going to do, I was silently relieved that I didn't have to 'cash out on my offer'. 

Countdown (Cont. Pt 4)

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 4:11pm

Cannot wait to have my own space MINUS Disneyland Dad and weekly skid takeovers 

Disneyland dad got a new schedule (so did I) so currently there is no downtime to give me peace in this house and he is picking them up earlier and earlier to the point there here being loud obnoxious bumps on logs while I'm still working from home. 
 

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