I'm super thankful for all the people on here who provided insight, support, words of advice, and spent time reading my unlimited rants (sorry)

I can't say thank y'all enough

Feeling a bit lonely (I guess it takes a bit of time to break habits like calling someone daily, checking in, sleeping next to someone, etc) and getting adjusted to being back single again

Also feeling a little disgruntled like if that dude had only .... (listened more, took my side more, put me first more, etc) 

Like y'all said can't change people, can't change the past 

In my new place. 
 

I called him right after he got off work and told him. He said he was about to call me and ask what we were doing for dinner and instead came home to an "empty" house. 
 

He was in shock and upset. And of course (after all the acting I had to do around him and his family this past month) he thought I was deceptive. 
 

I explained my rationale was due to that incident where he plopped on me and he claimed he was just playing, wouldn't physically hurt me, and hadn't done that again. 
 

I'm doing final packing and my dad text me that since I didn't discuss moving out and the logistics....not to take anything that's "his" 

Okay so I assume he will think that ring is his so I'm leaving that but I do recall one incident where I sold MY expensive blender I got as a birthday gift before I knew him and he lost his everlasting mind, told his coworker, who then was like "is she leaving you because when my exwife left she sold our vacuum?" 

Still haven't told him. 
 

Reality is hitting that I will have