Wedding of SS was yesterday. The 3 Skids and their spouses are polite and say hello and goodbye. They clearly know I have detached over the course of the last year and that is a triumph for me. DH was very attentive to me and made sure we had a nice time together. Many thanks to all who supported me and responded. I kept saying the mantra "Do Nothing, Expect Nothing" as suggested... Wish I had done this years ago.