We know where he wants to go. We know he will get in. He wants a backup plan. Fine. We had one worked out, but they do not have a degree program that makes sense for him. I have insisted on an engineering degree in order to ensure he gets a job. For what he wants to do it makes the most sense, since if he gets the degree he wants, he has to have a doctorate or at the very least a Masters. If he has a degree in Biomedical Engineering instead of Biology, he can get a job. A real job that pays money and would probably pay for his other degrees. I am done when he finishes undergrad.

I have told DH several times, that SD15 is NEVER coming back into this house. I will move out and will consider divorce without hesitation. She has pushed me to this place with her lies and manipulation. I know there are others of us that feel the same way.

I sent a last email to BM after she sent an email calling me an angry bitter woman. Yes, I responded. I suggested that we meet at a therapists office to work on our tenuous relationship. I figured it would call her bluff and she wouldn't do it.

I was wrong and got an email just now telling me her availability and to set it up. Crap!!! I am so sure this will not end well. Sent the email to DH and asked him how he wanted to deal with it.

BM has replied to my email.

I have no problem with us both being there at the same time, even considering all that you have done to SD and DH's relationship. I would not be the one to act aggressively towards you. Do you feel that you cannot handle yourself in a mature manner around me? I can handle myself peacably around you for SS13's sake. It truly is a shame that you feel you cannot control your behavior even for SS13.