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Had to send a note to a teacher today for SS. Email below...

SS13 mentioned to me that his mom was at school yesterday volunteering for the Ice Cream Social. SS was rather confused by this, since she has not been involved since elementary school. I am sure it is so she can see him in a different setting besides their EOWE visitation.

Since we now have full custody of SS at his request, the relationship between all of us is tenuous at best. All communication is currently now done through the attorneys.

SD, BM and Facebook

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Now that we have no contact with SD15 all DH has is Facebook. Well the child that BM wanted to have so she could take care of her, since all we did was micromanage her, she is now asking her to come home on Facebook. She actually put on Facebook that she needed to come home. Funny remark was "Mom I am in the house". Her friends all laughed about it. But, really you have no clue where your child is? DH told SS13 about it and they laughed and made fun of BM that she has no clue. My comment is great parenting...

Conflicted about SD15...

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With things finally getting settled for SS13 with the agreement, I keep thinking about SD15. As much as I resent this child for everything she has done a part of me thinks I should reach out to her. Not for me, but for DH. Maybe if I encourage her to see him, she might actually answer him. He says he doesn't want to see her anymore, but I know that is not true. On the other hand if I do and she starts to see him and have a relationship with him, what kind of relationship is it?

SS13 first visitation with BM...

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SS13 had his first visitation with BM since coming to live with us full time. She sees him EOWE now. Well it had been two weeks and she finally gets him. What does she do with him. Nothing. She suggested a museum and when he said no, he spent the entire weekend watching Animal Planet. The horrible SD20 now has apparently moved back in with them. She was the one that DH had in the CO that she could not be around the kids. He lifted it at the last mediation since she no longer lived here. Well as soon as she could she was back.

This is the first week that officially SS13 would have been with BM

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Well today normally SS would be going off to school and getting off the bus after at BM's. Not anymore...He did tell me yesterday that he was afraid that he would go to her house out of habit. Told him then if you do that walk home. (We live in the subdivision across the street) This weekend will start her every other weekend vistation with him. Wouldn't you know that SD15 is putting all over Facebook that the Step Sister from CA is coming for a visit. This is the same kid who we had to go to court years ago to put on a restriction about her being around SS and SD.

This made my day....

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A credit collector called at 8:00 AM this morning for BM. Told them to call back later and I would be happy to give them her contact information. My insomnia was bad last night and I was finally getting some sleep, so I was really annoyed. So they did and I gave everything I had, Cell, Home and Address. I did ask what it is for and all he would tell me was the name of the Credit Card.

SS is back and all is well...

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Smile Well after some minor drama from BM and SS yesterday, she gave him back an hour earlier. We think it is so that she still has some control over us and also did not want DH picking him up. Several texts back and forth with SS where DH said he would pick him up at 6:00 PM. She dropped him off at 5:00. The kid was so relieved to be home, you could feel it. The lawyers still haven't agreed to vacation and the final visistation hasn't been signed off on.

Update...SS13 full-time

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Apparently the final agreement that the lawyers sent over last night is not what DH agreed to. SS was supposed to have zero visitation with his mother unless they agreed to it. Now it says that he has EOWE with her until 14. That is 9 Months away. That is not what DH and his lawyer said. So they gave up court date yesterday and there is no way we are giving in on it along with the other things we gave up on. The lawyers already gave this verbally to the judge apparently. We are waiting to hear back on what next steps are.

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