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BM's email to DH on his concept of parenting.....

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BM sent DH an email this weekend (actually Thursday & Friday) stating sd(6) has been invited to a birthday party of one of her dance teammates. It is on the Friday of his visitation. AND she followed up by telling sd to ask her father to give up "his weekend" so she could attend this birthday party.

So let's see what it will be when the next visit comes up.....

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I usually cook for my kids and husband about 5 - 6 nights a week. By kids I mean my 13bd and 6sd (when she visits). SD likes to help me cook and I enjoy her helping as well.

Well, I guess she was telling her mom (BM) what we were doing and now everytime i turn around SD is telling me how she is allergic to all these different foods now. AND will not eat them at all anymore.

AND the list now is something like this: milk, wheat, eggs, soy, fish, latex, soap, grass, dust, baking soda, etc....

Update on our situation

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We were very pleased with the counter motion for custody modification our lawyer filed, and with the conversations we have had with him. All of the information and evidence is prepped and ready to go.

The court date was scheduled for 6 May, but BM's lawyer picked up a murder case and now the date has been pushed back to 14 July. Which works out better since SD will not be in school during that court case - and now we are building even more information against her to be used cuase of course she is back to acting a dang fool.

UT OH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Our counter-motion was filed with the court today. In our motion we are asking for modification of custody, child support, counseling for the mom, and a GAL. Based on our evidence and recommendation from the counselor.

BM filed her Motion and Motion to Compel with the Court back in January. Before the Counselor completed the therapy/counseling with SD. So the recommendation does not fit her motion. It actually shows just how far she went to lie in her motion and to her lawyer.

Back from the extra week BM gave us...

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Well, we are two weeks out from out battle in court. BM is taking husband to court for custody, visitation and child support. Mind you, she put SD in counseling to say and prove that we were abusing her. It back fired and the counselors report and notes state SD feels loved warm and comfortable here with us, no signs of abusive of any type, that counselor had to repeatedly tell mother no abuse, that mother’s actions cause a state of mental confusion for child and that mother stated to counselor she did this to not have to drive to VA for visitation exchanges.

Well, we will be going to court and fighting for it all

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AND get this..... BM is filing against DH for full custody, taking away visitation and more child support. No surprise on asking for more child support..... it is the normal theme of her bull crap.

ANYways - Recap of the last few months.

March - August 2008 - BM found out DH and I got married and bought a home (after i sold mine).... so she took him to court for more child support - It was denied.

Update on situation (Calm before the storm)

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If you read back in my previous posts - you will see that DH and I are dealing with the BM from hell. She has traded spaces with Satan if you ask me......

Anyways - We did hire the lawyer - he went over the 5 years of documentation my DH had kept, and the file the counselor kept on the sessions.

Well - the last two sessions were really in our favor. The counselor commented on the lies the BM has been telling the child. Stated the BM's behavior has the child (sd5) in a very confused mental state. AND that the BM has changed the story several times to the counselor.

Well, the shit is about to hit the fan.....

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Pardon my "french". After finding out the extent that we thought BM was going to is much worse with taking the sd5 to the counselor - DH has decided to hire a lawyer and file for custody.

First the counselor noted that sd was just fine with us, stated she loved us and feels welcome with us. Then the stuff BM has told her to say now is that we are beating and hitting her, she has nightmares because of us and is deathly afraid of us - only when her mom is in the session with her.

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