I'm realizing that more stuff bothers me than DH when it comes to the alienation and fall out of the SKs. 

SK recently had a fender bender. (We are long distance from SKs). DH talks to them multiple times a week via FaceTime and regular calls.

Sibling tells DH about it, NOT the driving SK. Sibling insists not to tell that they told.

DH talks to the driving SK and beats all around the bush giving lots of opportunity to bring it up. NOTHING. This is 2 days after it happened. We get to weekend when he typically has FT calls and STILL nothing. 

Yep, it was the last hurrah for SD before we released her to The Krackin this weekend. We packed a lot in the last 4 days. She is almost 13 and I made her watch 13 Going On 30 with me and DH. I love that movie so much. She is in the awkward not quite teen not quite kid stage so somethings she rolls eyes other things she begrudgingly admits she likes. 

Previously I posted about SS requesting less Summer time visitation with Dad supposedly due to work but we found out that was bs. He never even inquired with his job. 

DH agreed to it and encouraged the good work ethic. 

DH took off the first week SS was here and we have done all the things he asked for (small one state over, overnight trip), fun place activities (think Dave and Buster type places), beach, etc. 

DH got an auto generated message from State regarding past due child support. He is paid weekly and it is garnished. 
When he logged into the state site - sure enough the last two weeks are not reflecting even though his pay stub shows the deduction both weeks. 
First question - if his employer hasn't forwarded the money is there some recourse? 
Second question - does he need to notify the State with copies of stubs to prevent late fees etc? 
What else do I need to worry about? This is freaking him out. Thanks in advance for your help.