Ok-so yesterday i may have been having second thoughts but last night exbf made it a whole lot easier for me..
Despite the fact that I had my own home and everything for a home when we met, and eb had nothing literally..because of his ideal of having a lovely suburb setup with missus in pinny, kids down every other week I had to uplift all my stuff and move across town.. practically packing up single handed (because as he pointed out at the time it was my stuff and I knew where I'd like it to go..B****..Even though he expected to use everything) and then do the same the other end-transferring all the utilities in my lunch hours, asking family and friends for handouts to help furnish kids room and stuff..Even tho this happened...last night exb came in and started ticking off stuff I didn't need...(eg. spare bed which i'd begged from my sister for his eldest skid, extra settee from my mother..even down to the broadband which I spend about a week trying to arrange and has a direct debitFROM MY ACCOUNT.THis he decided to transfer to his new place because it was easier...)
FFS..I am spitting feathers..I am now more than ever glad that I've made the best decision of my life..I am even considering invoicing him for the stuff the kids have broken/trashed plus the phone calls from abroad to them he made from my mobile phone...
He has contributed nothing to this relationship.and now he tells me he's planning to buy everything new plus a massive flat screen tv for his new place, despite the fact he hasn't so much as taken me out for a drink in the last 6 months due to his having "no money" to spend on our home or relationship (and then taking the kids out on day trips, the best dvds, new clothes, and feeding them pounds worth of crap during their visits..It wouldn't be so bad if they appreciated it but now they just want want want and are never encouraged to say so much as a thankyou)
I am going to stop ranting now because Im being very self obsessed & boring and maybe it's not good to post when you're so angry!