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Well she's back and definitely RAD-disinhibited

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Submitted by Annanymous on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 8:55am

As much as it sucks dealing with, it's a lot better now that DH and others are seeing SD13 for real and not the way she was portraying herself with the things she was saying to them about me. Now they see that I'm not a monster bitch and that she's saying the same things about THEM to other adults too! She is triangulating adults against each other and vampiring pity and sympathy.

Unstable stepdaughter continues and "runs away"

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Submitted by Annanymous on Tue, 04/23/2013 - 1:50pm

So the disrespect continues. She REFUSES to enter the house after I pick her up from "practice"... oh yeah, there was no track practice she stayed at the school two hours and did not use the coaches phone because he left after she talked to him and asked him if there was practice... see that? Yeah, spoke to the coach face-to-face in the school. She said the office was closed at 4:10 pm.. the office stays open until 4:30 pm... so she was in trouble.

Tired dealing with what I think is borderline stepdaughter

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Submitted by Annanymous on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 6:28am

Brief history - she "attempted suicide" in my third trimester of pregnancy last winter by "overdosing".. this consisted of taking a dose of vitamins, a dose of Plaquenil, a dose of Tylenol, and a dose of Dayquil pill form then EIGHT HOURS LATER taking another single dose of each of those... and writing a pitiful letter and laying it on the floor by my door saying "you don't love me or care so just never mind, but if you care at all about anything, I'm having a medical emergency and killed myself, but just never mind since you don't love me and no one does".

Update #2 Hope

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Submitted by Annanymous on Fri, 01/25/2013 - 12:38am

I called mobile crisis and the therapist on the phone was amazing. She immediately recognized SD13 was manipulating and attention seeking and gave me advice and reassurances, which helped me immensely. I was at a loss, really, of what to do; do I get on to her or should I just tiptoe sort of thing.

Breaking every single rule and essentially forget you

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Submitted by Annanymous on Wed, 01/23/2013 - 5:15pm

SD13 said she was going to friend's house. I said no. She said "too bad". I told her come home now or grounded. She said "no, I need a break from you"... because I found out this morning she had been walking to a bus stop way down the road outside of the neighborhood.

I called the girl's mother and told her SD13 was not given permission to go there.

SD13 texted back "I hope you get it, I called Dad and I'm staying at friend's house".

I said come home now or grounded 1 month.

Is probably true + diagnosis

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Submitted by Annanymous on Tue, 01/22/2013 - 10:19pm

The investigator said from her experience she believes SD13 was raped (with penetration) and sexually abused by the alleged perpetrator for two years about 80% believes SD13's report.

The social worker and investigator said they believe SD13 has reactive attachment disorder and said that all the behavior is subconscious acting out for attention because she never developed a stable attachment. It fits; attachment disorder and/or borderline personality.

CPS is investigating BM as well as the alleged perpetrator.

More SD13

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Submitted by Annanymous on Sun, 01/13/2013 - 5:44am

Well, I am three weeks postpartum with a beautiful baby boy. SD has continued and increased her issues.

The day I was in labor and delivery and the baby was born, SD13 stayed with my sister-in-law and father-in-law at their house those nights. They gave her a tablet for Christmas and gave it to her that night early. Coincidentally, she skyped her mother and was emotionally and verbally abused that exact night and had to have them both listen to how she was abused. Maybe it happened, I don't know, but it is really amazing timing for the focus, know what I mean?

I think I am starting to dislike her

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Submitted by Annanymous on Mon, 12/17/2012 - 2:21pm

We tell her to back off her best friend's boyfriend. She writes him all this "never leave me I love you you're my bro" creepy shit, tells him her life is horrible with her parents (WTF she gets what she wants, never yelled at, FFS), she trash talks me to her friends on her texts (doesn't know I am reading them), I listen to her at least a fucking hour a day with her drama and she tells people I say "whatever I don't care".

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