I talked to SD14 therapist. She said sd14 is attention seeking and dramatic but she doesn't think she'd hurt baby and that she thinks sd14 just impulsive and didn't think about this razor hurting the baby.

I decided when SD14 comes home she leaves bag in kitchen behind gated area and turns pockets inside out and takes off shoes. I removed her shaving razor. She gets no more pencil sharpener. Mechanical pencils only.

This is the second time she brought a razor (first was broken glass) into the house and I told her and dh not acceptable first time!

I haven't had to do anything .ugh with SD14. She is outside days after school with neighbor teens and gone most weekends. I lay her towel out and clean the bathroom (or she uses the ha going towel and rehangs it ewww). I cook and make her lunch (kr she doesn't take lunch and cries but I only make lunch if I feel like it she almost 15 years old ffs. Let her be hungry she can make a sandwich.

She pulls stuff for attention and I ignore her bs! I haven't been mad all week!

I see in her text she is manipulates friends and backfired on her big time. They caught her. Lol

doing the text to speech so please excuse any misspellings or weird words.

Well many tell me to kick sd14 out. Its super easy to tell someone but can you kick out your DHs kid? How and where to? Definitely great for when she's 18! But she's 14. So I'm screwed. My only option is disengaging and not giving her any chance or fuel. Today is day 1.