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day 3 of modified "disengaging" and OT

Annanymous's picture

Its day 3. She stayed with bm Saturday night and we picked up Sunday 2pm and went to inlaws.

1. She wasultrasoundice and was on phone whole time. I said nothing about phone!! Go me!
2. She ate a lot. I said nothing!
3. She couldn't chop up her baked potato and put butter on it made a show and FIL put salt and butter on her potato and mashed it for her...and buttered her corn for her and cut it off cob...LMFAO. ..and I said nothing! She's 14-1/2 years old lmao. She was acting so stupid but I kept mouth shut.
4. FIL held and rocked sd14 and told my Ds-14month old "this is MY baby". I smiled and kept mouth shut!!!

OT: I have three days until my big appointment at the fetal medicine spina bifida clinic to have another ultrasound and consult with neurosurgeon and surgeons and spina bifida specialists. Dh has to be off work and stay home with DS-14MONTH since its 8-12 and I have to leave 6am to get downtown on time and will be home about 2pm. So 6am-2pm is too much for ds-14month. I am capable, but do wish I didn't have to go alone. I have no family or friends. Not pity partyingike sd14 lol. I just wish I could make some friends hard as sahm. Got family out of state which is fine. In-laws are awesome and so helpful and supportive but FIL is elderly and SIL Works and already babysitting her three grandkids.

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moeilijk's picture

I hope the appointment goes well. Try not to worry about what might happen. You''ll find out soon enough.

Good for you for disengaging... FIL sounds ridiculous.