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I finally told him

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Submitted by alwaysme on Tue, 10/13/2009 - 6:29pm

After seeing a psychologist for depression and anxiety i have realised the reason i am struggling so badly with skids is due to my husband... He never disciplines them and he just lets them tell me lies and then go back to their mother and lie as well. For example... i took them to their pony club (as mentioned in previous blog) and it turned out their mother and her mother were already there so i got mad as they could have picked them up!!! well i asked SD9 if they were pissed that i took them?

BM keeps changing weekends

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Submitted by alwaysme on Tue, 10/06/2009 - 6:35pm

At least once every 2 months bitch face BM changes the access weekends which is an absolute inconvenience for me because then i have to change my BS over to the same weekends because we try to have all the kids at the same time, Not only that but i make plans for my free weekends only to have DH call and say "we have the kids this weekend can you have them cos i have to work on saturday" because BM is doing god knows what either working to make her herself money or whatever.

How do i let it go?

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Submitted by alwaysme on Wed, 09/30/2009 - 7:34pm

I dont want to start a fight with hubby so i need advice on how to just let what happened today go... I will explain

I had to take the morning off work to drive skids to pony club 30mins away as they had to be there for a test of some sort, anyway when i get there the BM was there. Now to me as far as i am concerned if she was already going there (which i didnt know she was) then why could she not pick the kids up herself and take them clearly she didnt have to go to work like i did.

Am i being unreasonable

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Submitted by alwaysme on Wed, 09/23/2009 - 7:25pm

Ok i will try to make this short... fathers day hubby got a big picture frame from skids with them doing their horse riding pictures in it.
1# the BM has obviously put this together for them to give to their dad so therefore i do not want something she has made up on my eeeffing wall in my house!

Website is godsend

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Submitted by alwaysme on Wed, 09/23/2009 - 12:38am

I just wanted to say, i am so grateful i have discovered this website. I thought i was starting to go insane and that i was the only step-parent who was having a hard time liking hubby's kids and dealing with a slightly mentally unstable selfish narcissitic ex (not wife though, thankgod)

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