*VENTING POST*

Hello,

So, I had a meltdown weekend and I've ended up here... 

There is dysfunction, trauma, abuse, and boatloads of crazy in my DH’s family.  For that reason, my DH and I have decided it’s not safe for our children to have a relationship with MIL.  There is a lot more to the story, but I don’t want to tell it all right now.  Just know that this decision was not taken lightly, and both of my SD’s therapists agree that MIL was dangerous to their mental health.  One of the therapists actually threatened to call protective services if the SD’s were left alone with MIL when they were minors.  This caused the domino effect of most of the rest of DH’s family

I have been with my husband for over 6 years, married for 2. The kid (16 year old) that we are speaking of was abandoned by his blood mom 12 years ago, he has anger issues and hates most women. He is constantly starting crap with me so that Dad and I fight. He has some sick obsession trying to get rid of me! I’ve never put my hands on him, but he is disciplined mainly by me and loses priveledges when he acts ridiculous!