This three page email reminded me of how some men beat the shit out of their women then in a moment decide to kinda say something nice or do something half assed to appear that they aren't a piece of shit after all. And they wouldn't beat you if you didn't make them..... seriously that's how twisted this bitch is.
She actually told him that because he has decided not to give extras her and her new boyfriend (who by the way has excelled in his job and is VERY well liked her words) will no longer meet my DH half way for the kids. They can no longer afford to do nice things like that for DH. Um she moved the 6 hours away... does she really think she and her BF get to make that call? She also told DH with that being said he can see his kids any weekend he wants. Yet she still is denying him access by not letting him contact the kids via phone. She told him that if the kids ask to call him she will let them but until then he will not be speaking to them.

She also threw in a paragraph about me and my unhealthy issues. Accused me of buying alcohol for my daughter (who is 19) I have only been around BM 2 times in these past two years and she doesn't even live in the same town as we do. What the hell does she know? Then she told him that while SD17 was here she went into MY BEDROOM to use my bathroom and I didn't even have the class to put away my handcuffs and lotions.... that they were left out on the night stand. Um first of all I don't have a night stand and second of all it is my fucking bedroom. Her ass doesn't need to EVER be in there. And lastly i don't have any lotions. I have coochy cream in my shower for SHAVING.... and the handcuffs I found in my daughters room and I had took them from her(yea I was cringing) So that is why they were in my room. AND WHO CARES. For me SD17 shouldn't be in my room to begin with. That's my own private business. THEN she told BM that DH and I were engaged in a sexual natured convo in front of SD17 regarding the use of handcuffs in our sex life. UM........... NO we were discussing the fact that I was mortified that I found them in my daughters room so it was a running joke between me and DH so I wouldn't freak out about it. SD17 of course twisted the convo to make it look like DH and I are sexual around her. HELL he won't even hold my hand in front of her. And then of course her telling BM that I held up a "teddie" in front of SD in VS and said your dad would like this... OMG.
The email was ridden with finger pointing and blame placement. All of course directed at me and DH. I am not an honest person if I bought my daughter alcohol. And her kids cant be around me. How about we discuss her BF... he has cheated TWO times and BM has turned it into a huge deal involving all the skids.... but he isn't dishonest? He is a GOOOD person for those kids to be around? Are we for real right now?

Oh and let me also point out she made it a point to remind my DH that when he changed jobs (he had no insurance for ONE month) that she was able to get the kids on state insurance for that month because he let his insurance LAPSE! WTF he changed jobs. It was one month out of 17 years that he didn't have insurance but this bitch thinks it was the end of the world. They were covered within 30 days and the insurance now is 100% better than the old insurance. One would think she would be greatful that all this time she has not provided HALF of medical costs that he has covered it all. And one would think that she would be greatful that last week when collections came after US for her bill and it got paid. But NOPE according to this crazy bitch DH must just lay down and give until he freaken dies.

Oh I must add that in the email she stated:

I heard your mom's heart isn't doing well. I will as well as Bf continue to pray for her health and I'm sorry.

WTF? THEN right after that she goes into the bad mouthing, the finger pointing. The my BF has to now work on sundays for 6 hours a day to help raise YOUR kids.... um well my answer to that is simple. Why doesn't the lazy bitch get a job? So my DH has to work two jobs as well as her BF to keep her happy? Did I mention she praised herself over and over in her email? About how great their life is and how they have excelled and it's not her problem that DH can't provide for HER kids? That she has retained a 4.00 for the past two years in school and got a once in a lifetime scholarship for 90,000 and that her and her BF know what family means. And if we would like a picture of their calendar they would glady take one and send it so WE realized what FAMILY does.

Sorry for the long winded post. But all of this just has me reeling tonight. She bashed him so much more but I just don't feel like repeating all of it. She signed it by saying. Now that I have bored you, made you angry, made you sad I would like you to know you can drive down and see the kids anytime. Just as long as you adhere to the schedule we have made for that time. And we awaite your reply.
Then she signed it her name and her BF.

We did not reply. Her letter is coming next week from our attorney. She doesn't get to make the rules... she has a rude awakening coming. And I can't wait.