So it's been a while since I have been on here..... but that doesn't mean life has been great. Between my ex and DH's ex I am about to loose my mind.
DH ex has left her children with her BF while she drives 100 miles a day for a new college. Skids are staying with BF 4 to 5 nights out of the week while BM is chasing her dreams. I say her because this in no way benefits skids. As she won't graduate until AFTER they have pretty much went through school themselves. Dh is beside himself since he is 6 hours away. Youngest skid is having issues at school. Has no friends, doesn't know why the kids don't like him the older son is failing classes. The graduated daughter has dropped out of school and is still living with BM.
My ex has now become hostile with me. I think it is because our daughter is 20 and had a baby and I get more time with the grandson then he does. BUT that is because I make time for them. HE does not. So he is now taking this out on me with our son who is 15. Everything is a big deal. He is calling every day when it's my time wanting to know where our son is what he is doing. Mind you when our son is with him on his days I am never told anything. I have no clue what is going on and all my calls (if any) or texts (if any) go unanswered and ignored.
My son is 15 and has 4 documented concussions within the past year and half I am HIGHLY concerned my ex who is a coach is not concerned at all. This has been a HUGE issue this year. UGH!
The stepdaughter who thinks I'm the reincarnated devil still views me the same as she did when she was 15. She is now 18. I am pure evil. She wants to fight me. I have realized that there is no chance with this little princess. Therefore I have completely given up on that and am actually good with how things are.
I think almost daily about how life was before DH. When it was just me and my kids. Had a little bit of daddy drama with the ex. But that I could handle.
I am tired. going on 5 years into this and I am so exhausted.