I'm not saying you should not trust his fidelity - you shouldn't trust his JUDGEMENT. Obviously, if he hadn't learned the "sometimes a relationship is just BROKEN" lesson badly enough that he married not one, but TWO women twice - he's a slow learner, and he will let both of those BMs (and their 'darling' spawn) walk all over him.
He treats me like a queen. Even when I throw awful hideous hissy fits about his ex-skanks. We are almost 60 so this is not something that took place in a few years. These marriages were years ago.
But I still want to SCREAM at the top of my lungs at times. I have a history of being treated like crap by men in my lives. My fiance of 4 years (begged me to marry him each year) married someone else a few weeks before our wedding. And there is more just as bad if not worse.
I know that I have deep insecurities. No one has ever wanted to marry me. I will be 60 in a few months. How pitiful is that? I am pretty, smart and have a zillion friends so I am not an awful person. People really like me. But I am just unloveable by a man. I know I am pathetic.
FWIW I still love some former boyfriends (never been married) for various reasons. I suppose I define it as still caring about what happens to them, and would feel a loss if they were gone from my life (I have kept in touch with most). Personally I just don't lose those feelings completely, except in cases where I was treated poorly.
Doesn't mean I have ANY desire to get back with ANY of them!
You shouldn't. I'm not saying
You shouldn't.
I'm not saying you should not trust his fidelity - you shouldn't trust his JUDGEMENT. Obviously, if he hadn't learned the "sometimes a relationship is just BROKEN" lesson badly enough that he married not one, but TWO women twice - he's a slow learner, and he will let both of those BMs (and their 'darling' spawn) walk all over him.
Run now, while you still can.
He treats me like a queen.
He treats me like a queen. Even when I throw awful hideous hissy fits about his ex-skanks. We are almost 60 so this is not something that took place in a few years. These marriages were years ago.
But I still want to SCREAM at the top of my lungs at times. I have a history of being treated like crap by men in my lives. My fiance of 4 years (begged me to marry him each year) married someone else a few weeks before our wedding. And there is more just as bad if not worse.
I know that I have deep insecurities. No one has ever wanted to marry me. I will be 60 in a few months. How pitiful is that? I am pretty, smart and have a zillion friends so I am not an awful person. People really like me. But I am just unloveable by a man. I know I am pathetic.
FWIW I still love some former
FWIW I still love some former boyfriends (never been married) for various reasons. I suppose I define it as still caring about what happens to them, and would feel a loss if they were gone from my life (I have kept in touch with most). Personally I just don't lose those feelings completely, except in cases where I was treated poorly.
Doesn't mean I have ANY desire to get back with ANY of them!