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My reward for encouraging DH to have a spine?

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Submitted by nengooseus on Fri, 04/29/2016 - 1:01pm

Is that SS6.5, PASd out since July 2015 is coming for the evening/night tonight. (If there were a sarcasm font, it would be used here.)

SS is nothing but a shell filled by his mother's venom and nastiness. He firmly believes that if he's anything other than ugly to me, DH, or DD that she will find out and she will treat him like she treats us. So this should be a barrel full of monkeys all around.

On the plus side, DH filed three new motions ahead of our hearing at the end of next month. And his paralegal (me!) completed the paperwork perfectly according to the clerk. BM will be super p*ssed about every single one of them, which delights me. I know it shouldn't, but since karma is so damned slow, I have to take things into my own hands. }:)

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Submitted by Krazylife on Fri, 04/29/2016 - 8:51pm

I hope you are pleasantly surprised and have a good weekend!
Awesome job on the paperwork! I agree karma takes to long,sometimes the little victories are so fulfilling.

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Submitted by Indigo on Sat, 04/30/2016 - 2:52am

Must have missed it. What is the intent of the 3 new motions?

Hope this visit goes smoothly, quietly and pleasantly.

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Submitted by nengooseus on Sat, 04/30/2016 - 10:16am

The motions are clean up issues for the CO. A deployment clause (because both BM and DH are active duty), a clarification on tax exemptions, and a medical reimbursement clause, so she'll stop having the kids treated without consent and then demanding repayment. And hopefully no more contempt charges. But BM doesn't want rules that she has to follow, and she doesn't like the court to hear how she refuses to coparent, so she will be p*ssed.

But keep in mind that she's the one actively engaged in PA with SS and has filed to reduce DH's custodial time (and increase CS) due to the success of her PA.

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Submitted by nengooseus on Sat, 04/30/2016 - 3:50pm

Yeah, the evening was a total bust. I didn't get home until nearly dinner time, so the first time everyone was in the same room was dinner. SS didn't acknowledge anyone, didn't speak, and after dinner went to his room without talking to anyone. DH went up and tried to talk to him. He brought him down, and we tried to talk to him to tell him that it's his choice if he wants to be miserable here or to have fun, and he literally said he would rather be unhappy, at which point, I got upset and went upstairs.

While I was upstairs, DH tried to talk to SS again. DH asked him if he even wanted him to be in his (SS's) life. I kid you not, he said that he wants DH to call every once in a while, and that's enough. DH was devastated. Literally weeping at his son's callousness and complete disinterest. It's truly heartbreaking.