I think i am doing this right now to the pair of them. Mainly the SS 15.

My patience has worn thin, I cant see it getting easier. I don't have any desire to leave my partner - i am just tiring of the spoilt behaviour and the demands. This caused a bit of a fall out and I think it is the first time the SS has ever seen me p*ssed off with him - his reluctance to help out coupled with his bullsh*t excuses.

since then i have been blank to him. I discussed how bratty i found him to my partner (his BM) after i had spent alot of money on his clothing - she said to ignore him and she was certian he did appreciate what I had done, "in his own little way"

Not having kids myself, this can be quite hard to adjust to . We have been together 3 years now.