So I've started disenging from SKs due to lack of interest/support from DH and him overruling what I say right in front of them. Although I've tried talking with DH about undermining me, it was to no avail. I don't even think he has noticed my disengaging. Even thoughnthey have bad grades and bad behavior at school, there is never avconsequence and he just lets them watch tv alllll the time.I barely acknowledge them anymore. They live with us during the week and go with the mom on weekends. Although they aren't disrespectful children, I just don't want them around anymore. I'm so happy when they leave and I wish they would go live with the mother full time. How can I get past these feelings since they are 10&11 so there is more time before they are old enough to go since the mother doesn't want custody. What can I do?