BM kept them a whole 2 weeks. The whole time she had the she called saying to dh " you aint gonna see them again. im keeping them" blah blah stuff like that.
well in one of the phone calls between dh and bm she started to run her mouth about me which as nothing new BUT ALSO ABOUT MY BD... oh hell no so I went off on her and him. And told them both BM better be ready to be a mom again cause i wont watch them anymore.
we the 2 weekend bm has them dh called to pick them up and she wasnt having it. but on sunday she called for us to pick them up so we did. well sunday night after dinner I told dh " what are you doing with the boy tomorrow im not watching them?" so we took them back to bm. lol she was mad " why are you bring they back they need to stay with you for a while now I cant handle them"
well we left without them. BM called everyday at lease 5 times a day for us to pick up the boy. well couldnt happen cause dh only as sundays off. no the next sunday we go to pick them up for a few hours and guess who wasnt at home or picking up her phone BM!
Well I told DH that he was gonna take monday off cause im not watching them. dh does. he also go a hold of BM. her lame lies " I just need time to myself I need this I need that" point she didnt want them back. well later that day we get a call from his old CS caseworker cause BM filed for welfare and if she got approved he would have to pay child support. lol there is a count order for her to pay him but we never did anything about it because we dont need her money. so she found out this past thurday she isnt going tp be getting welfare for them..
Well she called and I went off on her calling her every name in the book. and because we have went round before she wont run her mouth to be.
But now all of a sudden she wants the and can handle them blah blah point being she just want the money.

anyways it make me think of my own baby daddy drama.
I dont have any see I came to this theory. there are 2 kinds of dead beat moms/dads out the
1: the kinds that wants nothing to do with the kids. doesnt pay child support, never calls or visit. (my bd)
and 2: does want nothing to do with the kids but wants everything that comes with the kids CS FOODSTAMPS HOUSING they just used the kids to get more for themselfs.
AND i am glad you say that bd is 1 because at lease she know where she stand and he is not acting to love or care for her just to get gov aid