Like I said WW3 broke out cause I said NO
But, I gave in after all the glass on the floor, broken pictures, being yelled at that I am selfish ungrateful and just think of myself, keys and other stuff being thrown.
What did I say no to. Well MY H knew he had work to day like always and when it go closer I asked about the ss's because they were with BM DAD. My H told me I would have to deal with it.
now after BM and her whole family have done to me. I and H knOWS i dont deal with any of them but today instead of dh dealing with it before work he said " you just deal with it" I tell him " no thats your job dealing with them"
his responded by throwing , breaking thing and yelling at me until I just gave him what he wanted.
I can so sick of this shit, I dont know what to do anymore
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Wow really? Throwing and
Wow really? Throwing and breaking things because you won't do HIS job for him?
That is absolutely ridiculous. He does not sound stable. Please think about whether this man is really worth it.
I know what to do. It's the
I know what to do. It's the only thing you need to do.
When you say NO! STICK WITH IT!
If you say no and he throws a fit you back down you have taught him that he only has to throw a bigger fit to get you to do his bidding.
You HAVE to stick to it otherwise you lose all your autonomy and power.
Next time STICK TO IT. If you have to leave the house do it.
The first broken item, the
The first broken item, the first thrown item, or the first abusive yelling episode, should have been the last one. YOU DON'T HAVE TO TAKE THAT KIND OF TREATMENT. It's not going to improve. It is going to escalate, and the SSs are going to follow daddy's example, and abuse you, too. Pack up and leave before you get physically hurt.