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I don't know if I should laugh or be worried...

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Submitted by bonusmom on Sun, 07/08/2007 - 10:05am

I have very good reason to suspect BM has her coke habit back...reason being her boyfriend said so.. not going into detail on how but I heard him make a comment about her coke habbit, I have to admit I am laughing uncontrolably inside...here I thought she had things together RIGHT>>>> I guess that answered my questions about what she does with all her money...she spends it on sugar boogers...hahahaha and just the other day sd called and told hubby that she couldn't get fireworks because they didn't have the money...its in her mom's nose....what a crazy bitch I knew something was up...she is still a cokewhore...anyway on a serious note I am worried about sd, and I don't know if I should tell my husband because I found out in a very sneaky way...and what can I do to prove it??? SD clearly needs to a more stable home...what should I do other than laugh at the bitch....should I just stay out of it and let things roll?? It's bound to take a turn for the worst...

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Submitted by Mocha2001 on Mon, 07/09/2007 - 12:36am

That you need to tell DH. As far as prooving it ... go to court and ask for a hair follicle test. Tests back 90 days.

~ Katrina

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Submitted by Candice on Mon, 07/09/2007 - 7:20am

I wouldn't wait on anything...and I wouldn't feel like you have to "prove" your information either. Just tell him what you know, and I would be honest about how you foud out too, sneaky or not, just tell him.

If you don't disclose this info, and something horrific happens, you will harbor some tremendous guilt for not sharing the info. I hope your sd finds some safety rather than being subjected to a bunch of questionable individuals. I totally hear what you are saying about wanting to laugh inside. I believe my bm dabbles into drugs from time to time too, problem is she flies under the radar just enough not to get caught. She does date a drug dealer too...we just can't prove it.

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Submitted by bonusmom on Mon, 07/09/2007 - 9:22am

Okay So I took the advice and told my husband about BM's nose candy problem..Thankfully and suprisingly he wasn't mad at me for being sneaky...unfortunately we are now in a situation WHAT DO WE DO??? Do we call DFS...and if so what will be done...??? BM currently lives at home with her parents it is a shotgun home with 3 adults 2 children 5 or 6 dogs and about 8 cats, it is an unsanitary home it smells horrible and there is stuff piled from floor to ceiling in every room the grandparents are potheads BM is a alcoholic and now we are learning of her coke problem...So it is a very unhealthy situation for sd to be in but what can you do??? The other odd thing is I don't know how BM manages to keep her job..she is a functioning drunk/cokewhore...HOW>>>>???

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Submitted by Mocha2001 on Tue, 07/10/2007 - 1:47am

Talk to an attorney, there are ways you can work this situation, keep SD from mom, and get a hair follicle test to proove she's been using coke. Some attorney's will allow you to pay them for an hour of their time, and they'll tell you what to do.

~ Katrina