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bonusmom's picture

I am always RIGHT about this stuff....So last week I spoke to sd and bb and explained that we would not be buying school clothes this year...however we would buy school supplies...as a matter of fact while I was discussing this with sd bb said "I will buy everything you need for school this year"...well I knew better than that we go through this every year...last year the dump bitch waited until the night before the 1st day of school and called hubby freaking out because sd did not have any new clothes so I ran out and bought 5 or 6 outfits then the selfish whore wouldn't even meet me to pick them up, so after all the shit sd had to wait until the next weekend to get her new clothes and guess who was the bad guy in that situation yes ME...so that is one of the many reasons we decided not to help with clothes, besides bb is always bragging to me about her $200 boots and her $100 perfume and the fact that her boyfriend makes soo much money...WHY can't she buy school clothes??? WHAT IS A COKE WHORE ALEX??? LAY OFF THE DRUGS AND YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO AFFORD TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR KID...back to the point, bb called hubby the other night and asked if he was going to buy clothes and supplies for school. Are you f%&$ing kidding me??? This is the other thing she does that makes me want to choke her when I discuss something with her she always acts stupid with my husband like it was never discussed...I was proud of my husband he said "I PAY CHILD SUPPORT" needless to say she was mad as hell starting screaming "I have to pay for everything, and I guess sd is just F%@#ed" YEAH BITCH and its no ones fault but your own...ahhh I feel better already...but seriously WTF...WHY???

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Dawn-Moderator's picture

Yeah, no matter how much you do or go out of your way, if things don't work out, it's always your fault!

We have been buying ss's school supplies since he started kindergarten. He's now entering 7th grade. It is getting quite expensive. It is in the custody papers that we have to buy all supplies and pay all school fees. We should have had that changed when Dh took over as the custodial parent but we didn't think about it. Bm doesn't contribute much at all. She won't buy ss any new clothes to start school most likely. She only buys things when she absolutely has too.

Dawn

Krissy's picture

I remember you had posted recently that your DH pays $350/mo CS, right? Maybe BM has a tough time stretching that. I have to admit that it doesn't seem completely crazy that DH contributes some money for extras.

It seems that the problem is not that she can't afford to by her child more, but that she doesn't feel it should all be on her to do it. I agree to a certain extent, however, if you and DH bought all of the school supplies, then she can buy some new outfits. That seems fair to me.

bonusmom's picture

Yes he pays $350/mo cs which I agree its not much,trust me I am a bm as well and my 4 yr son's father just paid his 1st cs payment so I know what is like not have help from the other parent and for that I have on many occassions felt sorry for bb and convinced my husband to help her more but when she lives with her parents makes more money than my husband and receives cs plus has a major coke habbit I find it very difficult to continue to supply all the extras and trust me she expects to supply ALL the extras..if sd wants something she is told to ask us no matter what it is...I find it funny that bb is always telling my husband that she is broke but to me she acts like a damn diva...anyway sorry to sound so defensive but if you knew me personally you would know that I have a hug HEART and GIVE more than most, so I it really bugs me that I have been taken advantage of by this woman on more than one occassion because I have felt sorry for her to a fault...I have argued with my husband in her defense on more than one occassion...and I am finally fed up...it is complete BS..and yes I have already bought all sd school supplies...