It was our weekend for visitation this past weekend. We picked up the girls on Friday as usual. BM has a new boy toy that apparently she feels the need to show off. She gets a new one every couple of months and they're usually a pain in the butt to deal with but we ignore it and go on with our lives. It just sucks for the kids that they're exposed to these guys over and over again.

Anyway, at pick up my husband overhears her boyfriend from the car talking about how he could kick his butt, blah blah.. Immature bull crap that we're used to dealing with. He ignores it. He hands BM her child support check for Feb paid in full. She asks him what this is like she can't read or we regularly give her money for anything else. He says child support and leaves it at that. We go home and get through the weekend.

Sunday rolls around and it's time for drop off. We drop off the kids and he's walking back to the car to get in and BM gives something to SD6 and tells her to bring it to her Dad. It's a card. I'm thinking WOW maybe she's matured and finally sent something SD6 has done in school home for her Dad. Nope. He opens it and it's a congrats card for us getting married apparently.

On the front it says: "It's always been LOVE. Now it's official" and inside it says: "Happy Forever After" then she wrote "Congrats wish yall the best May God bless!!" and she signed it her, SD6, SD3 with our last name and then included her son at the end with his different last name.

I thought it was quite amusing and funny. Not sure what her goal in this was because it didn't create any drama and was pretty laugh worthy and pathetic on her part. I told my husband I should send her a thank you card but include that she's 2 months too late on her congrats. We've been married since Nov. The only thing I can guess is she noticed on the child support check that my last name was changed.