Leave him alone???? How is this her fault? BM could have a 100 sugar daddies. That doesn't mean they should take on your boyfriend's CS obligations.

He didn't pay his CS and ignored your warnings. He's is the one to blame for everything that happened to him today.

For heaven's sake don't email her! Dayum. He didn't pay. Bottom line.

This guys a losing idiot get him out of your life.

I'm not sure why you're blaming the BM when your BF was behind on his CS payments. He has fucked up his own life. And he's now fucking up yours as well.

He's your BF and she is not your exWife and they are not your children. Stay the eff out of this, it's not your business. Do not email her.

On a personal note, why are you with a man that is not supporting his children? Is he out of work? Has it occurred to you on any level that if you marry this guy, you'll end up supporting you, your BF and his kids? Why are you with someone that isn't taking court orders seriously and is risking jail time rather than paying CS??

Is your bf unemployed? Because if he is, he should file for a cs reduction. He shouldn't just not pay. Don't email bm. I'm sure you're not getting the whole story.

I think your anger is targeted at the wrong person. Your BF is at fault not BM. He is the one not paying so I am confused as to why your ire is directed at BM rather than your deadbeat BF?

A bigger question, why would you hitch your star to a man who can't support his children, has baggage that he cannot keep under control enough to stop it from influencing your life, and apparently keeps recycling through the same shit over and over again while expecting a different result?

When I was going through my tragically flawed hot damsel in distress I can rescue them all knight in shining armor phase my dad gave me some very good advice. "How can you expect to soar with the eagles when you are wasting your time picking shit with the chickens? A chicken will never be an eagle. You are an eagle, find an eagle to make your life with."

So, why do you have your head in the clouds with the eagles when your relationship is the epitome of picking shit with the chickens and your BF is the head rooster in charge?

Why are you dating a loser?

If he does this with CS he cannot be relied on in any other relationship. Period.

I don't know that I would find someone who refuses to or cannot support his children (beyond exceptional circumstances) attractive.

Yes she gets money from her sugar daddy...but those are your bf children and he is obligated morally and legally to provide something towards their upbringing it is not the ex's new partners responsibility.

I hope that you are taking close note of his actions and if you do choose to stay with him (which I would question) you never combine finances or have children with him as he clearly cannot pay his own way and sees no need to provide financially for his own offspring.

As someone said above, if there are reasons why he can't afford the payments then he can get a modification.

I don't blame the BM sounds like she was trying to scare your bf into acting. I hope it works and he realizes that he is in deep trouble unless he pulls his socks up and works his shit out.

This guy just lost $1700 trying to buy a vehicle from some guy on Craig's List. So he had that much extra cash sitting around, yer he's behind on CS. :?

BM can't be that bad. She agreed to rent a car for BF and kids to.attned some event. Maybe mom is just sick of bailing his sorry butt out every time he messes up.

He refuses to pay cs so it's BM responsibility have it stopped.

It was also BM responsibility to tell him he had a bench warrant.

Yet u want her to let go. Alright.

Seems legit.

Double post

Sorry that you are going through this but this is his journey and not yours...never engage the EX...