I'm a little irriated. VENT
Last night dh said he is still upset about my ex writing my son b/c he keeps putting in there that he still loves me. I have told his sister to tell him not to do that but I can't stop it. I told dh to not read them as my son doesn't tell him or me he ignores it. Now remember he is in prison. This is the only thing he does, he doesn';t talk sh!t about anyone only that he says he still loves me. Now I understand why he is upset but what can I do other then keep telling his family to tell him to stop.
So I asked dh how does he think I feel? I mean his ex is always in my face I can't get away from her! At least he only has to deal with one thing and only every few months. I have to deal with his ex all the time! Including her talk sh!t about my kids and to have her say all the friggin time that my dd doesn't look like me. And he hasn't said crap to her only ignore her and expects me to do the same!
So why can he be upset and not me?
I deal with this same thing!
I deal with this same thing! My ex rarely is mentioned around our house. My BD will say something once in awhile about him or something she heard. DH gets all upset whenever he has to hear about him.
I on the other hand have to deal with his dumb ex on a daily basis and it drives me nuts! She is constantly emailing or texting even though she is also remarried. I am supposed to just ignore her as well!
DH will say so is this what you feel like when you deal with my ex? Well ya!! I tell him just to imagine how he is feeling whenever my ex is brought up and multiply that by 365 days!! :O
I know eagle eye my ex is
I know eagle eye my ex is hardly ever mentioned he send a letter every few months not even on a regular basis. But on the other hand bm is always texting or calling about something stupid and when she can't think of anything it is to just tell him or us how much she thinks my dd doesn't look like me. Dh has not said a word to her about talking crap about my dd and me but expects me to stop my ex from saying he still loves me even though I have told his family several times that he is writing his son and not me and that is not fair to him is that situation.
I hope dh got it last night when I told him that his ex is always there but he said that he started to talk to her only the bare minimum but he never has addressed her with the fact of talking crap about my dd. Even though he expects me to stop my ex from saying w3hat he says. :?
Oh ladies, I relate to this
Oh ladies, I relate to this all too well. My ex is hardly ever mentioned..and when he does see my girls, adn brings them home, he pulls up, they get out and that is that. HIS ex however is in my face daily..calls my DH for stupid reasons, texts him..etc. I swear she has to see or talk to him every day!! IT drives me crazy, and DH knows it but says to just ignore it like he does..whatever!!