why am I still pissed off?
I am still really pissed off that bm keeps trying to tell me and my dh how much she thinks my dd doesn';t look like me. The lasted texts was a week and half ago and she sent 3 to say this over and over. Now every time I tell a friend of mine they just laugh b/c my dd looks so much like me that she has always been called little purple.
Now my dh says to ignore her but this is years and years of this crap and I'm just pissed off now and sick of hearing what she thinks. I don't care what she thinks but why go to so much links to pound it in about what you think? plus I nor have my dh ever responded and she still keeps doing it.
My question is why am I still seething about it? I have tried to let it go but I just can't seem to do so. I wonder if it is b/c this has been going on for this long and she still can't stop even though she has never had a response?
Maybe it is b/c she thinks
Maybe it is b/c she thinks she has the right to tell me what she thinks of my kids. and the fact that dh has not addressed it is with her and put her in her place about MY kids!
It's tough for a sane person
It's tough for a sane person to handle an insane person's drama.
You are upset because it involves your OWN child. Your flesh and blood who you would normally PROTECT fiercely from crazy people like your BM.
You are probably also upset with your H for not putting her under better boundaries!
I don't think it is abnormal and I don't think it really has to do with what she is saying. I mean, you KNOW your daughter is yours, KWIM? So it's not like you are mad that BM might be telling the truth.
I guess maybe if you could try to see it as something an insane person would say. Do you think that would help? I mean, people tell you how much you look alike. So at the VERY least, people have to be looking at her strangely if she insists to others that your daughter doesn't look like you.
I know it is difficult but I would think of it like someone calling a tall guy "Shorty". She is in Bizarro World. Everything is the opposite to her!
What a weird thing to say.
What a weird thing to say. It would be one thing if she said your DD didn't look like your DH. You know she is your kid so just let crazys say crazy things. I wouldn't say anything because then she knows she 's getting to you. It might be hard to ignore, but that's your best option.